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Yes, can’t imagine where we got the impression you thought New Yorkers were heartless cocktail slurping monsters... What a town, what a story....

Then why did you do it with that headline?

My ex husband cheated on me numerous times. After I divorced his cheating ass, a year later I got an email from him apologizing for cheating, because a girl he was with cheated on him (ironically, he was with his baby mama, and cheating on her with the woman who he found out was cheating on him- that might be a lot to…

We are adults and as someone who thinks cheating is just what most people do, I don’t think it’s a moralistic thing to say, “This is unsurprising seeing how he jumped ship the first time.”

If you're not fit for long term partnerships, then don't enter one. This is not complicated.

Yeah. No. I get what you’re saying but overall, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. It’s not a moral judgement to say that how someone acts in one situation may very well translate into how they act with you in the same situation. Maybe he cheated for a myriad of reasons (likely) but the fact is he…

If it’s dead leave before you bring a side piece into it. Cheating is a way of crushing someone in so many ways and it’s incredibly disrespectful. You want to fish around for new flesh? End the relationship you’re in and then do it. Respect the person you’re with by ending things respectfully, not by fucking another…

I never said anything other than a relationship that forms out of infidelity has a higher chance of ending than one that doesn’t. Are there exceptions? Of course. Paul Newman/Joanne Woodward, Ronald and Nancy Reagan and others. That still doesn’t negate the fact that the odds of failing are higher in relationships…

That wasn’t moralizing, it’s fact. Relationships that start out that way have a higher chance of failing than those that don’t. The reason being trust.

Why are you personalizing this? Did you cheat on someone?

A relationship borne out of infidelity has pretty high odds of not lasting. Why? If they are willing to cheat with you, they are willing to cheat on you.

One of the things I’ve always hated about historical fiction is the plethora of white men who, despite living in racist towns during racist time periods, are not racist at all and oppose racism. Did such people exist? Yes, certainly a few of them did, but they were far from the majority. Yet historical fiction would…

THIS WAS NECESSARY.

This was never a mystery to me. There was no way Atticus Finch couldn’t be a racist. EVERYONE was racist at that time. Just because you believed in the rule of law doesn’t mean you believe in equality.

I was so delighted to see Ta-Nehisi Coates say the other day that he’s never read To Kill A Mockingbird.

American Indian is a valid term: there’s a lot of difference of opinion in Native communities over what different people prefer to be called. Some do prefer Native American or just Native, some are fine with American Indian, some prefer indigenous, some First Nations, many prefer their actual tribe name, etc. I mean,…

“It was just a misunderstanding and once the movie is out will be cleared up.” Is an unwatched movie like a tree in the forest?

actually, beyonce is good.

Why did Kanye let her finish?