Yeah this woman is doing a whole lot of projecting. She really wants t swift to be feminist. It’s absurd to suggest that Katy Perry is just self serving when she risked alienating a lot of fans by actively campaigning for Hillary, and Taylor’s the real activist for risking...nothing?

Still not as bad as the self righteous smugness of “sapiosexuals” though ugh.

I have the same issue with poly folks. A lot of poly folks lump themselves in with LGBTQ and talk about oppression and pride and most of them are cishet and white. What is it with people needing to claim an oppressed identity. I mean I get that our society isn’t structured very well for polycules but.... I honestly…

I get a little frustrated with this too. I agree that it’s true that for most people, sexual attraction is some mix of physical and mental attraction, so it isn’t some special aspect of sexuality. Most of the people I know who self identify as demisexual are just fine and I don’t have a problem with how people wanna…

Yeah, don’t do that. Even if it’s true. If she’s a bad mom, he’ll come to that conclusion on his own, and he’ll have enough of a conflicted emotional response to just that. One of his parents said bad things about the other to him, though, that’s just a lot of emotional baggage for a kid to bear. Hell I’m a full grown…

The only song she has that doesn’t annoy the ever loving piss out of me is Blank Space.

That acceptance speech thing was uncalled for but christ it was 10 years ago and TS is doing just fine.

It’s especially tired because we’ve already seen her do the self deprecating song/video about the tabloid version of herself. Do we need it again? At this point it just reinforces the narrative that she’s obsessed with her image, it doesn’t subvert it at all.

She definitely at one point said she never talked to Kanye about it. Later on she changed her story, but she did lie originally.

Yeah, that’s a weird excuse. She is a fully fledged adult. I’m 28. The petty grudge songs she writes are not targeted at women my age...

The fiance of one of my best friend’s from college is like this. I have no *proof* that he’s lying, but all his stories sound like grandiose bullshit and oneupmanship. I’m sure he’s just making shit up as he says it. One the one hand, his lies seem pretty harmless, but on the other it worries me that my friend is with…

Yeah, what pressure? He never once expressed his dissatisfaction until now, and the sexual issues are something she wants them to address together so that whole “take pressure off her” thing is such unbelievable bullshit.

Yeah, why should I be open to considering it if my partner wants to open up our relationship? If he wants to change the terms of our relationship and I don’t, then we can part ways. I don’t need to consider a relationship style I don’t want just to keep someone around who isn’t satisfied with me.

I think the biggest irritation I have with the poly community is how they refer to “ethical non-monogamy” and “unethical non-monogamy.” One is polyamory and the other is cheating, so just call them that.

If these broads are suing over facebook comments, I can only imagine what nightmare parents they are. So we can all take solace that their kids will hate them and probably go full on progressive out of spite.

Isn’t your present after you push out a baby the baby?

They should be honest about it though. My ex told me he was divorced when we started dating. Come to find out, yes they had filed for divorce, but it was no where near final yet. On paper he was still married. She was still in the process of moving her things out of the house. They’d been in couples counseling very…

....okay aside from how awful that is, what a fucking moron. Why did he fb friend you? Like, he has to know you’d find out the truth via fb. Did he assume you wouldn’t care that he’s married or that he lied? Was it all just an ego thing to have someone to flirt with on vacation?

A guy I was messaging with on a dating app mentioned being married. I asked if it was an open relationship; he said “yes, but she doesn’t know that.” Fucking douchebag.

My dad could have chosen not to cheat on my mom. As my parents, they both could have chosen to keep me only as informed as necessary and to keep their issues out of my relationship with each of them. As it was, I knew far too much about it, bore far too much emotional weight, and for a long long time felt guilt that…