i am all natural curls and its a pain. people raved over it and pulled out the ringlets to watch them spring back..but you cant do anything with it and it is never neat. Its always a lot of tousled stuff. Cant wear a chignon whatever a chignon is. I just know I cant wear one, hence wish I could.

wait til you're a bit older and it disappears! Well not totally but I dont need to shave more than lower leg and armpits now. even the stomach line, gone.

not worn make up for years cos dont need to since working with kids and teens and people who dont care..I can teach in my pyjamas if I like or at least a kaftan thing…and now i am glad since finding out just how toxic make-up all is. Really scarily toxic.

Its utter bullshit. everything revolves around the will to power. If you go out as a woman who is absolutely not interested in a relationship, but is still nice to the guy, I dont mean act like a sociopathic you-fucked-me now- GTFO, but charming, sweet etc but clearly, not available, then you can guarantee the man…

Should be a T-shirt. "frankly, doris"..its brilliant. It could be a whole line of cupcakes and stuff

That's a useful tip! I have never thought of that.

Actually men told me that a lot and it was true, I realise that now. I see younger girls doing what I did with the make-up and wish I could tell them they dont need it. Big black lines round the eyes, not good. Double worse when you get older though, are you listening Cameron Diaz?Sure looks harsh.

No different to playing hard-to-get. Wouldnt a movie of The Game versus The Rules be good? Jennifer Aniston and Jason Seagal.

That should just be "You look better without them too" and see if he gets it. Give him that kind of "Get it?" look and see him flounder and look all wretched as he tries to work out what happened

Is it just possible that girls like bad boys and women like decent men? A girl doesnt need to settle down at 25 any more (no matter what some of these unbelievable assholes think) She can work and travel and screw around and even have babies on her own with a turkey baster if it comes to that. So girls dont want to…

It just sort of randomly occurred to me that there really are some totally culturally specific things. Nobody can tut like the British. Nobody can say ewww like a 16 year old American girl. Nobody can say 'dick' like Americans, as an insult, I mean. Nobody can suck their teeth in disgust like the Cantonese, or add…

What the hell is wrong with that? How on earth are her classmates eating in class? She's right, it is unbelievably lacking in manners. And she and all the others must have already done a full routine of tuts. (Clearly these aren't British students because tuts annihilate us: even nearly inaudible, almost subliminal…

I loved 'grumpy troll doll half-eaten by a raccoon'. I'm going to channel that next time vile guy hits on me. Reckon I can do the face.

or perhaps try to adjust their perception to find anyone attractive. Every single person in the world is beautiful. All. It only takes adjustment. I think women are good at finding something to admire in a guy. Now men should learn it.

Isn't the point to own the word 'slut' as gay people have owned 'queer'? So it's a good thing: a slut is a sexually active woman who gets around and has lots of partners and plenty of experiences to remember and at the same time practices safe sex and is disease=free and generally just has a big smile and relaxed (or…

if that's not the fastest way to make someone do something..

ha lol, that's just what I thought! your N count..it's all I could think of, the unsayable N word. I really wondered if this guy demanded such a specific thing.

yeah sometimes well jealous of that. Whatever issues lesbians have, they just surely aren't as dreadful as the straight world stuff. Surely to God.

And that kind of emotional "I only cared about the guilty verdict" (never mind about caring if maybe they were innocent, or whether there was anything else at work, or just doing the job a journalist is meant to do) response is exactly why men say women aren't to be trusted with power and important tasks. That's just…

"boys will be boys"? Like the boys on the 'she's so dead' video chastising Michael Nodiamos for his rape jokes? 'That's not funny dude, I got a little sister…" 'What if that were Amanda, Michael?" Like the boy Ma'lik Richmond, who took off his coat to cover up Jane Doe when she pulled off her vomit-covered shirt?…