Run, baby. Getting so angry that you use inexcusable language like that means getting so angry you can’t control yourself. Does he have other anger problems? I’m betting he does.

I believe this article will incite delicious flame wars. I have no skin in this game, so I will await the beautiful comments.

I knew an Asian girl in college who dated a white guy who displayed some kinda racially insensitive behavior. She was all “he’s not a racist,” he’s dating me. They broke up and one night he was drunk and screaming the worst racial slurs at her in the middle of the quad.

2.5 years is quite a while so I understand you may be confused...but he may be showing you who he really is with this one. What’s that saying about true character being about how someone acts when nobody is looking?

Yeah, that whole “I was just angry and wasn’t thinking” reasoning always sounded worse to me because I would never and have never in my life thought to use a racial slur to insult someone. My mind doesn’t even jump to it. It speaks volumes about what’s really in your heart.

It makes it worse. Most decent humans wouldn’t have that word in their back pockets for when they’re really really would. You know who does? Racists and people who believe being angry is an excuse to cut people deep. Either one is a sign that you hitched your wagon to the wrong person. GTFO or be with an asshole. Your…

Oh come on. You know what you need to do here. Now put on your big girl panties and do it.