Requesting permission to copy, paste, and of course accurately cite this comment, and send it to all my friends because THISSSSS. You put what I've been trying to articulate for years so beautifully. THANK YOU.

This shit is ages old. It still boils down to: women should not have appetites. Women need to contain themselves, and be contained, in all aspects.

So true. Unfortunately, a lot of men perceive Asian women as submissive, docile, feminine...every word you can think of to describe your average Disney princess, really. I actually feel bad for Asian women because it's not every day you encounter a dude who knows that Asian women are as diverse as any other group of…