I love Selena. I don't understand why she keeps going back to Justin. He just gets progressively worse.

I think it's for all the single ladies in attendance?

Like ogres.

Seriously, people are still reporting on this? I mean, fine, the selfies thing is new, but you couldn't even reference fellow Gawker Media writer on how exaggerated this story is?

I actually think that's really cute. :)

ALL OF THIS! I was so excited when I finally left the greys, after feeling discouraged for months. I did my best to promote the unapproved commenters left behind.

I was promoted out of the greys last November. I did the same thing with the greys once I had the power to help them. But I'm no longer followed by Jezebel. :(

I used to be followed by Jezebel, and now I'm not. This sucks.

If we were previously approved commenters, will we regain our status? I worked really hard to leave the greys—I don't want to be banished again!

There are a lot of sub-blogs now, and I don't think you have to be an approved GT poster to get posting privileges to them. At one point, someone made a masterlist of all the sub-blogs, but I don't have a link to that. You might find some topic-specific sub-blogs to tide you over until you gain posting privileges at…

People don't usually reply to the porn gifs—they report them. Yeah, words from trolls would get lots of replies and go to the top, but I don't think porn gifs would.

I have honestly spent less and less time on the mainpage because of this. Everytime I think about venturing over, someone has warned us in GroupThink that there are porn gifs, once again. If compassion for your writers and your commenters isn't enough to get Gawker Media to do something, maybe they should think about…

So much fun! By spacing them out, we could invite more people. By having them in two different locations, more friends/family could come because they could drive. Also we could spend more time talking to our few friends who we didn't get to see often, since both they and our families were spread out into three…

One person misunderstood she wasn't invited, which was awkward, but she took it really well when I explained. We hadn't spoken in about 5 years, and the last time she contacted me was hitting me up for money for some charity thing.

Or you attend unusually bad weddings or I attend unusually good weddings. Or you're unreligious and stuck at really religious ceremonies. I'm the kind of person who always cries at weddings, and so do many (not all) of my friends.

As a recently-married person, and recently-ish engaged person (short engagement FTW), if you don't post pictures of your engagement ring to Facebook, your friends and family harass you nonstop. My options were to share my ring to Facebook, or to send out an email or text message each time someone asked for a ring…

I've been to several weddings in the last three years, and I've enjoyed all of them. So have all of my friends. I don't know a single person who doesn't like weddings. I've never met anyone like you in real life either.

I didn't have a bridal party, largely to avoid trying to pick a MOH and bridesmaids. The "short list" for MOH is five people. The "short list" for bridesmaids? Fourteen. No bridal party eliminated that problem!

Wait, seriously? Look, the vast majority of people understand that weddings are expensive, more guests = more money, and venues have limited space. Have I been disappointed a few times in the past at no wedding invite? Sure. But I certainly didn't complain about it or act petty or anything. I have some friends I'm…

I don't have a colostomy bag, I'm fortunate to have "moderate" Crohn's, but this story still made me cry. There is still such a stigma and lack of awareness towards people with IBD, and I'm just grateful to each person who speaks openly about having it.