It’s still the right thing to do. One day we’ll make this sisterhood thing work. I just send things with an “I’m sorry. I would want to know.”

Reason I left my ex husband was because a friend came forward like that. I believed her, and thanked her, asked for the divorce the next day, began hearing from a deluge of other friends he'd done it to them too, and went back to that first friend and thanked her again.

A friend’s husband (at that time her husband of less than a year) tried repeatedly to have phone and Skype sex with me while she was out of town. I remember talking to my mother about it and being told not to ever say a word to anyone. She said all that’d happen is I’d permanently lose a wonderful friend. She told me…

I disagree. I think a lot of men actually don’t care that much about their wives or girlfriends (sad but true), but wouldn’t want their mother to know that they’re engaging in gross sexual harassment of a stranger. I think “telling on” a man to his mother is the ultimate way to get through to this kind of guy. Very…

I would compare it to the way that many teachers contact parents of kids who are behaving badly, only to have those parents immediately turn around and accuse the teacher of being terrible, holding a grudge, etc. Very few people react well to having a loved one’s bad behavior pointed out by a relative stranger. (I…

Not one. The absolute worst is when they send me a dick pic, then ask me to send a nude pic “because it’s only fair.” I usually send them this:

I read this as the action of a woman who has been pushed to the breaking point. All bets are off after that. I would personally be tempted to go even further and post them publicly with identifying information. *She* doesn’t want these photos, either. Why should she be obligated to protect these dicks? (Word carefully…

As a mother I wouldn’t want to see it, but if any of my four boys did something like this I would surely wonder what the hell I did wrong. And the recipient sending me the proof of their misogynistic bullshit would not make me mad at her, but they would get the FULL weight of my shame in their ear (or text messages.)

She posted one on Twitter, with the women’s name screen-cut for privacy. Scary stuff - the woman mentioned that she also found out he’d been doing this to four other women, and when she dumped him he hit her. Perfect misogynistic asshole trifecta: unfaithful, dishonest, and abusive.

I hope I’m wrong but I’m guessing she receives her fair share of slut shaming from the wives and girlfriends (‘why don’t you cover up then?’ ‘Or maybe don’t dress like a stripper or porn star!’ Etc). I doubt all recipients respond this way but I can imagine many would lash out in embarrassment or hurt or shock (at…

This woman is doing god’s work.

This is awesome.

Rarely. My insurance is pretty lame, though.

Ok now hold on, you’re saying you don’t get jizzed on when you visit the er?

Just wondering the same thing this morning. I think a lot of asshats do this as a "coping mechanism." Like Road Rage. F-ed up, eh?

Well, I was jizz asking ....

I hate that I laughed at this, but laugh I did.

But did it fix her shoulder?

I’m a guy, and this horrifies me more than I can express.

You know why female praying mantises eat their mates after they copulate? Because they know that assholes like this exist.