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Did you seriously just compare my violent sexual assault to someone having their car stolen? Fuck you. My body is not a flashy object on display and the PTSD I will suffer my entire life is a lot more to deal with than filing an insurance claim for a stolen vehicle. Fuck you.

I'm a man so this probably doesn't help, but Gawker in general this week is becoming vile on a level I cannot shake. Watching those comments as well as the ones on the main page regarding BLM and the Dallas shootings are starting to hurt me on my fucking soul. I do not understand how people have become so twisted as

This story, combined with the fucking shitty comments on the coercive sex/faking orgasm article shared from Gizmodo, is putting me in a really serious #banallmen #burnitalldown mood.

If you got so drunk that a mugger noticed and decided to take advantage of that, a lawyer wouldn’t attempt to use your drunkenness to get the mugger off charges.

Agreed! I totally don’t see the chemistry and the “yeah, they are totally fucking” vibe so many seem to see! Tom looks either bored, in pain, or desperately overacts “happiness”, whereas Taylor has always appeared somewhat asexual to me anyway - well, except when she is with Karlie Kloss, obvs.

Nope, that’s now how racism works. Because racism is not just an orange saying that it hates an apple. It’s about power. You couldn’t reverse the races in Williams’ speech because black people haven’t been enslaving, oppressing, and disenfranchising white people for centuries.

That's the problem with not vetting anything. It could clearly be read that way, a six pointed star over a pile of cash is just as dogwhistly as a black guy in a stocking cap looking shady outside a convenience store. Sure, you can make the argument that you're not trying to imply anything, but the image hits all the

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BPD gets conflated with narcissism and with sociopathy. It is neither. Importantly, it is also a label frequently given to “difficult” or “non compliant” psych patients. I spent a month on a personality disorder unit with 30 patients. 26 were women. 18 were gay. It is a punishment diagnosis. It is a dustbin diagnosis.

Thank you. Having BPD and bipolar, I am constantly shocked and saddened by how stigmatized BPD is and how people armchair diagnose it.

BPD is in the DSM. And I haven’t heard anything to suggest that this was this woman’s diagnoses...I have BPD and j would never try to manipulate someone into suicide...

NO. That is profoundly offensive. I know many people with BPD, most of them are a danger to no one but themselves. If you buy into and spread the stigma - you are part of the problem.

Yeah I’ve got borderline and if anything I have too much empathy. We can also respond well to medication and therapy. This chick is a sociopath.

I don’t entirely understand how people are criticizing the good-bye here. Trevor Noah seemed genuinely sad and the big group hug at the end was really cute.

Hasan, Roy Williams jr, Jordan Klepper, Dedi lydic and the girl who does the politcal commentary.... she is great. I want more of her. Also Ronny Chieng!

Ugh, I used to love Sanders, but I think he’s being such a shit little white man and saying that Hillary basically has to adopt all of HIS policy platforms before he’ll endorse her. Ummm, bro, Hillary is way more qualified than you are to be President and just because she’s a woman doesn’t mean she can’t have her own

I have no problem with people—white or otherwise—doing work like this. What I do hate (and something I saw a lot when I lived in Cape Town for 5 months) is when people take pictures with children and then post them on the internet. I only shared images of kids whose names I knew and who I actually developed

In both my personal experience, and examination of History, oppressors always burden the oppressed with their emotions, being caretakers is part of our unpaid labor. Both guilt and eugenics/gender essentialism are used to silence us when we challenge that status quo, “love” is the moral imperative, they say, as they

I’m just happy Downing Street doesn’t have an official pet pig.

IU Grad here. My friends have been going APESHIT about this on facebook. Several still live in the area and pay taxes. It’s really screwed up. Sadly, I work for corrections in another state and can verify it’s not unusual - even here. So not acceptable though. NOT AT ALL.

It’s SO SO sick. What is worse is the townie