The sick part of abuse is not only the violence but the aspects of it that don’t leave physical scars. There’s a cycle that happens where the physical abuse is followed by a period of extreme dotage and to the point of dependency. The abused person feels like the abuser’s life will completely fall apart without them.…

*groans for all eternity at everyone and everything in this Dirt Bag except for Lupita*

Chris Brown was recently spotted FaceTiming with Rihanna

Nooooo Rih you are too good for him!!! EVERYONE IS TOO GOOD FOR HIM

It wasn’t funny at all.

My therapist would point out that when talking about some of the traumas and abuse I’ve experienced, I would be laughing, or crack jokes. She would be like: “Don’t you think that’s weird. You should examine that,” and while she is a pretty awesome lady and really helpful in so many regards, I think the reason I was…