It's those little thoughtful things that make all the difference.

Being a dog person (or even just an animal person) is major for me. If a guy is just passingly polite to my dog, I start to lose my attraction. But a guy who is all snuggle bug? Oh it's on.

You make great points, but if I'm being honest that star was all for Castiel.

"I did not portray myself as a judge of what's interesting and what not."
"It's... not interesting."

There seems to be a bit of a contradiction in your statements there.

Also your "Gurlz! Imma blow your minds in here: Womenz be opressed by this thing called a patriarchy! Yeah, big word nobody knows, I did not make it…

Well not everyone is as amazingly worldly and all-knowing as the commenters on Jezebel today. The bit about the word gigolo being a household name now was a bit much,but I thought it was interesting to read how he felt about his job. If it's not interesting to you, fine, but you are not everyone, and neither are the…

I knew absolutely nothing about him and saw nothing wrong with the piece. I mean, yeah there is some cheesy self-promotion, but you can't blame a guy who is in such a prejudged profession for trying a little of that.

Thank you! I do not watch the show, but I thought this piece was interesting and came down here to see what others thought, especially if they were familiar with the show. And the top two comment threads are completely hostile while providing a big ole ZERO points to back up that hostility. So long story short, I…

Several days late to this, but I have to tell you I am so impressed by how civil you remained in the face of this irrationally angry person who couldn't seem to stop hurling insults and "fucking" at you every five or so words. I mean really. Well done.

Shhhhh...this kind of nuanced analysis of the complexities of religious and spiritual beliefs doesn't allow for arrogant grandstanding.

To be fair to some of the people commenting like that, I don't think most of them mean that this would okay if they were just "doing it right." What they mean is: Exorcism? Crazy. Believing for some reason that Exorcisms involve stabbing? Extra fucking crazy.

I get the point you are trying to make, but in this case you are looking at things from a really oversimplified point of view. It is a journalist's job to get to "the truth" yes, but not irrelevant bits of sensationalism. You speak as though you believe being transgender is fraud in and of itself. What would be wrong…

Exactly. Luckily for some of us, we realize what a stupid and self defeating fantasy that is.

Haha wth. You are either laughing or you're crying.

And thank you for saying so!

Ain't it the truth.

This is true. Coupled with the persistent notion that women should overlook physical traits while men should absolutely not have to, this notion creates big problems and sets lots of men up for disappointment(and of course, women too).

Well, I didn't think so when I started, but it became clear to me that most of the men there(the ones who messaged me anyway) believed that to be true.

Well I have only done OKC (because it was free, and honestly, I was not very invested in it), and I thought they did an okay job of matching similar values and personality types. I know that particular site is associated with casual sex, but I found it very disheartening, as I said above, that men who clearly had…

Sort of, but not really. I choose my partners based on way more than attractiveness. Even in casual situations, I want someone who is appealing to me intellectually or who at least has similar values. For example, I would never sleep with someone who thought lgbt people are destined for hell. I made that distinction…

I know! But it works so well here too.