I guess my issue is that when men think about Casual Sex, they tend to imagine themselves as playboys bedding every woman they desire, but women are expected to bed every man who ever propositions them, and that is supposed to be the female equivalent of enjoying Casual Sex.

I guess I am offering my experience as a woman who enjoys casual sex as an argument against your assessment. I enjoy casual sex, but not with just anybody. And the not taking no for an answer is a big deal on these websites.

I got so many messages from guys who were obviously looking for casual sex, despite the fact that my profile said I was looking for something else. Don't get me wrong; I enjoy casual sex as much as the next person. But I wasn't looking for it from this website, and especially not from dudes I had nothing in common…

Ughhh I hate those "joke" terms. So so gross.

Men also imagine that this scenario includes "all people I'd actually like to sleep with." This fantasy is so tired. I've tried to explain it to so many dudes. Like, you know how in lots of male comedies there is that hilarious Ugly Chick who is desperate to screw and it's so funny because she's so ugly? Yeah, so…

It's really bad, though it might depend on where you live. My most laughable male experience was a guy who messaged me just to tell me where exactly I went wrong in my profile making him want me. He then proceeded to try to argue with me about it through messages for like an hour(I continued out of pure curiosity). I…

Ugh whatever. I, a woman, have enjoyed casual sex plenty. I do not enjoy being bluntly harassed by men who will not take no for an answer.

love your comment AND your sn.