Even a stopped clock...

As another former military wife (USAF, for that matter), I can attest that these groups can be really insular and clique-y, and can sometimes contribute to feeling isolated on the base if they aren't right for you. Even the boards can be tough, though I did get a little more support from them just because there were…

You really should pursue option (B). I'm in the animal welfare field; I have two good friends in vet med school right now and have shepherded a few others through the gauntlet that is getting into vet school, which, as you know, is HARD. I cannot overstate how hard it is.

No, Nine Inch Nails did "Starfuckers Inc.," and Manson was in the video for it. There's a bit of the song where Reznor does the "I bet you think this song is about you" refrain from "You're So Vain," but it wasn't a cover and they didn't sing it together.