For the 1st time in my 31/2 year relationship I am jealous. More than a passing blip, properly jealous. I am, needless to say, not enjoying it.

@brightpeonies: Alert yourself to his or her undesirable traits. They may be small to you, but if you were to be his or her SO they would become huge, possibly unmanageable. That's how relationships often work.

@Scout: I'm not implying that. I'm implying that self expression through clothing is AS essential as music.

Jesus, really? It's so fucking fashionable to bash the fashion industry right now (yes, I've spotted the irony there).

I immediately thought of this.

In the interests of defending the train service - I was assaulted on a train in England, and the staff onboard were incredible. Sensitive, professional and warm.

Gyllenhaal-onanist-watch:

@Niki S: THANK YOU

@Susan B.: I'd say it could be accounted for by a disparity in numbers of boys and girls who are sexually active.

Has anyone pointed out that a young man receiving anal sex does not necessarily mean it was from a man?

Dearest Tyra,

The Snooki book deal I can deal with. Harper Collins calling this horseshit 'writing' makes me want to hang up my typing fingers for life.

This is so degrading, and sad and...mean.

@katieupsidedown: I completely identify with the male identifiers being applied to you. I came from a family which had 4 daughters and one son, so I naturally sometimes fell into male roles to counter the balance.

This was the first republished article I have really, thoroughly enjoyed reading.

The red saturation on the first 'Unretouched' photo has been turned WAY up. That has the effect of making her eyes, veins and skin unevenness look much more extreme than they would IRL.

@LongBoarderLC: And FWIW, anyone who gets mad at a question like yours is being crazy. The more you know and all that...

@LongBoarderLC: More than you could ever know.

@jinxedluck: It's not a weird reaction in the eyes of people who are into BDSM. I've found more trust and sweetness between couples who openly indulge in each other's kinks than those who don't in my life*.

@lolita7b3: Once upon a time I did. Now I consider myself a more liberated person and better feminist for it. It's a part of being sexually liberated, the fact that I can ask for it and enjoy what I enjoy.