My grandfather on his deathbed regarding my 12 year old sister’s weight “I’d rather buy her a new dress everyday than feed her."

This wasn’t said to me by my parent but I know he had children......I was the middle child of 3 with a single working mother. There was no room in the budget for extra food let alone orthodontics. Although I kept my teeth clean they were still wonky to say the least. When I was about 17 I was sitting at work one day…