That kind of fills me with hope. I know that sounds kinda schmaltzy but the fact that despite all this stupid, petty, hateful bullshit your coworker was genuinely curious about gender fluidity and non judgemental. That's nice and with everything going on we should take these victories where we can get them. This story…

I remember my mom brining me into the women’s restroom until I was 5 ish (dude here). It was NBD for anyone in Utah in the early 90s at some mall. Now it’s a damn national debate ticket who sits on a toilet.