You sound like me! I also cook on Sundays for the whole week! A three cup cooker has been perfect for me plus it takes up very little space. I honestly just do half a cup at a time anyway.

Brilliant, brilliant response.

Listen sweetheart, since you appear to be here to school everyone and anyone in the nuances of ‘rape culture’ and its relationship to language, surely you would be aware that limitations and declarations about male sexuality have a far greater impact on rape culture than any scrutiny of female sexuality ever could.

You completely, wildly distorted her comment ... in order to project your own stuff onto this. That’s not okay and actually pretty weird.

Oh yeah I’ve heard a lot of really scary stuff about work visas in Kuwait and the UAE, I hope it all works out okay for you :\

Ugh, what the heck! I’m sorry your company is awful :(

“I don’t owe you anything”

I know I kind of hurt his feelings and made him feel very unsexy, but the truth is, while I was attracted to him the sex was kind of not good and I don’t think I want to do it again

Your description of him “doing the wounded puppy thing” is basically your interpretation of where his mind was, not an actual reaction on his part. Much of what you wrote was just that - your idea of what was happening in his head. You were projecting big time. Anyone who gets rejected in the MIDDLE of a sex act is…

to be honest, you sound like the source of most of the drama. Dude was probably super confused after 12 hours of lets fuck, no we can’t fuck, let’s kiss naked, lets fuck, no we can’t fuck. let’s go to breakfast, no I don’t want breakfast. I’d be quiet too! shit.

But you don’t apologize in order to make things right for whatever you think you might want in the future, you apologize because you did an unkind thing. That’s it. Then you leave him in peace.

“I want to continue hanging out with him and taking it slow, but I don’t think I’ll be ready next week.”

It seems like you’re expecting him not to have any feelings about what happened, which I think is unfair. If I were him, I would feel frustrated and confused and used. Maybe there are some nuances of his behavior that aren’t coming through here, but just going by what you’ve written it doesn’t seem like his reaction…

I’m sorry to say this, but I don’t think he overreacted at all. You clearly weren’t intentionally leading him on or anything, but you must have confused the hell out of him. First you want to fuck him, then you don’t, then you really want to fuck him and ask him to go out to buy condoms, and then you tell him you…

Had yet another setback in the visa process. Sometimes it feels like I’m never going to be able to go forward with my life. Santa Claus, please bring me whisky.

“I can do this.”

Clarks says she asked God: “Are you going to bless me and let me find a diamond today?”

Colored contacts. She has dark brown eyes like all her siblings.