Having a bit of a snag myself, so screw it (moderator, do me a favor? Keep this greyed so it’s not COMPLETELY blasted. Someone reaches out, cool, but maybe stuff it into the grey please. Thanks. I am willing to send cookies.) sjennalutz@gmail.com. Sometimes there is a day or two between me checking it, but I do and I…

You’re nicer than I am. Personally, I’m at the point where if someone complains about wearing a freaking cloth or surgical mask should have to wear a properly fitted ventilator, outside, in 100 degree heat for an hour.

I survived. Mostly. And it’s that mostly part I try to find a way to make others who have been raped understand, and accept that it is okay to aim for mostly. Frankly, the best I’ve ever heard from anyone is ‘mostly.’ And you are right, we build our ideas around the concept that surviving is some straight forward…

True, but still world’s better than: the tiger print neon mini tube dress (6 inch stripper heels and Amy Winehouse hair. Took me from 6'2 to 6'8 and paired with a groomsman 5'7. Not... fun.), the southern belle monstrosity complete with hoopskirt) and highly uncomfortable heeled booties with over a dozen tiny buttons…

It can be done. As a bridesmaid, I was forced into a truly horrible outfit that even had freaking feathers on the toe of the shoes (I’ve had so many ugly bridesmaid dress I make the movie 17 dresses look reserved) and hose for a vintage nightie style gown. Just slapped one side of velcro down the shoe and another on…

Glad to see even the celebrities cracking under the pressure the same way I am...

One minute. One solid, soul crushing, mind numbing, hope destroying minute. 60 seconds of stunned ‘what the hell?’ going on. I had to track down the transcript and read it and even then had to practically turn it into a drinking game to make it thru. Had to be careful doing it that way - at the start, figured I would…

Long as everyone can be cool with substituting “bisexual” for “lesbian” and the fact the only way I’m leaving my husband beyond natural cause will involve a body bag and me in some seriously unflattering orange jumpsuit, I’m in. I’ve got the witchcraft on lock - anyone down for a dance in the pale moonlight and…

Any chance we can have a list made of every idiot who says they would refuse the vaccine and, when it becomes available, kick them to the far back of the line? And when they DO finally take it, they have to have it done publicly. On air. While possibly genuflecting and apologizing. Something like the public…

Hmmm. Physical worst or moral.... which to pick. AH! We’ll go with physical as the moral has to do with walking in and finding a guy screwing a dog. My physical worst had to simply be the butt dragger. Apparently one of the gals at the shop I worked at (first under the counter job, was cleaning a beauty parlor on…

The poor woman - forget worrying about just housing, someone make sure she has a guaranteed long term pass to a good therapist too. This kind of thing is gonna scar and take a LOT to work thru.

This seriously sucks. It was only about 4 years ago I found the perfect theatre. It had been a playhouse, so only one movie a day playing, bar in the back and with the tables in the back of the house, I could get up and walk around when I needed to without bothering people (crowds = bad and a health issue means…

Yeah, the quality of teacher can make a difference. That school? If it had burned down I would have brought marshmallows. It was in an area where 75% of the kids were from families either recently amish, Mennonite or currently mennonite. To say it was a backwards school puts flowers on it. Dad actually came in and…

I... ah... kinda did that once as a kid. Punished a teacher with materials they weren’t ready for. Horrifying, I know, gross beyond works, but yeah. Started my period at 11 and even from the start, one of my teachers (male) lost his mind every time I had to get up to go to the bathroom. Outright made nasty comments,…

Oh... screw that noise. I’m sorry. I’m about to be crude but also graphic with a serious case of TMI, all those with delicate sensibilities or a desire to un-icked, turn back now. All those gone? Sure? Carrying on now, you have been warned.

As a Libra I think the whole belief in astrology is really a bad idea and should be avoided at all costs. On the other hand and to be fair though.....

The whole why can’t he get himself thing... if he truly IS in a manic stage? It’s because he can’t. While expecting her to come get her man as a job for her because of being a her is ridiculous, it IS kinda your partner’s job to come get you when you have wandered completely away from reality. The whole ‘in sickness…

Can I applaud your ability to insult him without falling to utter and complete crudity?

So, if she hadn’t heard him, it wouldn’t have been offensive and wrong.

I have a request for all my fellows here. Should anyone ever hear I have backslid into the nonsense that walks in line with this idiocy Stewart is pushing (it’s what I grew up with. But my family was worse so. We’re talking women: do what they are told, don’t talk back, stay with ‘your own’, don’t wear pants, keep it…