wow! this was so powerful, i know im going to be be thinking about this for a while. thanks for writing. <3

agree. putting together all the details of what he did plus his type of comedy and my unscientific theory is that he is probably an exhibitionist, in which case wallowing publicly in shame is just more of the same good times for him. of course, because life is complicated, its also possible that he actually means…

you need these rules why? are you having trouble falling in love or are you having trouble getting those numbers up? is it’s the numbers thing, thats the underlying issue right there- trying to add up women and call that manhood is a lie, it’s bad for you and it makes you bad for women.

this kid took the only way out he could think of. we show our worst selves to the people we feel safe with, and sometimes thats only our children. the emotional logic of this is one of the saddest things i know of.

“dumpster-hearted bootyhole gerbil-in-chief” this is so good, I’m dying rn

ugh, “shrill”. where are you coming from with that word?

what do you mean by racism bs?

the point about stealthing was so necessary!! thank you!!

no, the anger towards white women is not causing the division. white women requiring black women to stop talking about their experience of racial oppression is causing the division, on top of white women ignoring feminist movements by black women. on top of instances of racism from white women towards black women.…

yes, thank you!!! that was (barely) political retaliation, not a defense. if kelly wants to cry over one he needs to cry over both.

wait, “RZA went on to say that Crowe did apologize to him”...to him? to him. not to her. so is the thinking there that as long as men all apologize to each other then everything is fine? that is some amazing paternalism.

second that. g-spots need fingers, d*cks tend to run express right past that local stop.

have you closely examined the consequences for your sisters, daughters, and other female relatives? the consequences of you refusing to listen that this is hurting black women? no one is talking about white women here except you.

thank you so much for reporting this! i haven’t seen it anywhere else. the news about DACA got me thinking, first the target was muslim visitors and refugees, then it was illegal immigrants, then DACA kids, getting closer with every step to actual citizens. i wondered which citizens would be targeted first- new…