exactly why i tried one on a trip there many years ago—leaving the state, saw a mc d’s and gave it a try—not terrible. but nothing special.

THIS ^^

true. i read something in my late teens about that and so was never concerned that it didn’t happen. in my case it started happening after i had baby number two when i was in my late 30s. best sex ever has been since then, and it was awesome before then. same partner, he was doing nothing different (because it was…