I’ve heard the same thing about asbestos lawsuits! Poor, innocent corporations...

That sounds awful, but still not as bad as the anti-union propaganda I’m forced to watch as a manager. Did you know that unions exist to make as much money as possible off of their members while destroying innocent corporations?

The thing is, you’re actually not helping anyone at all. Pointing at someone & telling them to be more careful after they have tripped on a pothole is not helping. Getting the city to fill in the pothole and helping to realize a change in legislation on how quickly the city fills in potholes will actually help.

Ahhhhh. I get it now. You’re “that guy” that tells people after unfortunate events and tragedies that they didn’t do shit the right way in the first place and it could’ve all been avoided had they not been “too lazy to parent correctly.”

Are you kidding me, though? Because my child is 13 and due to mental illness I’ve had to leave her alone with doctors and therapists quite a few times. Please do not assign the blame on this to anyone other than the person responsible - this fucking asshole of a man.

They were married at the time, and the wife participated in the abduction.

I’ve been through the worst.

I told my husband the other day that I don’t mind cleaning the toilets, but I hate scrubbing dried pee off the floor around the toilet. He laughed.

I wanted to be like “Motherfucker I thought you’d have it on the table hot and ready since you lounged around all day!”

My blood boils over that shit. Lmao like having a vagina doesn’t mean I have some magical knowledge on how to scrub a tub or a toilet. It’s pretty simple. It is dirty, I spray it with cleaner and I rub it until it appears clean. The end. Repeat forever until I die.

This whole conversation just convinces me that men have no real reason to change at all, as long as they make some minimal efforts (that apparently deserve applause) and suck up the criticism. My husband works hard at his job, but so do I and I make much more than him. I do all the domestic stuff. Even after my…

RIGHT? We have cats so you really have to vacuum with the attachment along the walls or there will be cat hair “tumbleweeds” and litter that accumulates if you skip this part of vacuuming. He says to me “there’s more than one way to do something” and I am like no there fucking isn’t. Because to me it’s like ok, if I…

Because A) they can get away with it, and B) have never been programmed to feel judged over their householding skills. Men are judged for being deadbeat dads, or unemployed, but not about cleaning. Not even now.

Thissss! I went I away this weekend unexpectedly and my husband stayed home. I asked him to please clean the whole apartment (which I do on a regular basis) and after much gyration he agreed. When I got home it was mostly clean (but not very well done) and he hadn’t cleaned the bathtub because he “didn’t know how.”…

This is so me. I can’t count on my husband to do things, or when he does do them it will be sloppy or wrong. So I end up doing most everything. I worry that if I tell him to do things he’ll be mad or if I don’t praise him for doing something he’ll feel taken for granted. Meanwhile I’m doing intense deep cleanings of…

Because a lot of dudes literally don’t see or understand the full scope of the work as a result of socialization. Women see the unequal distribution of household labor because they’re the ones doing the work. It’s like how white people don’t see white privilege because they’re the ones with the privilege. People of…

Wow. This is me. After two kids and four years later, we’ve sorted it out, but it was rough-going the first few years. The patriarchy is a real thing, and “what do you mean, you can’t cook/clean/do laundry/take care of the kids/work/etc all at the same time, cuz MY MOM did it!” was an attitude he took, along with, “I…

We can’t get it together to be happier than Finland? The place is a land of snow, darkness and pickled fish. The national sport is suicide.

Can I just say how refreshing it is to have someone say “My account was hacked” and have it be the truth instead of a desperate attempt to undo a stupid post?

It’s rude because rather than argue the topic at hand, you want to argue whether I’m qualified to have an opinion at all. I find that derailing and disrespectful. And hypocritical, because essentially you’re extending that same prejudice against people who don’t have enough tattoos that you ascribe to Dan towards me.