Stop demanding that anyone outside your incel/mgtow group validates your whining. Men get nixed because they suck at basic conversation and also either put no effort into their profile, or has something in there that’s a screaming red flag - not because they don’t look like Armie Hammer.

And funny how a Church might be understanding and accommodating of its hugely famous, high profile Hollywood star undergoing a divorce. Bet it isn’t as generous to regular plebs.

“You’re welcome, but not that welcome. You’re included, but not that included.”

So he doesn’t go to an anti-gay church, he just goes to a “hate the sin, love the sinner” type church when it comes to the gays? They don’t hate gays, they accept them and forgive them?

Oh okay, that makes sense. I definitely interpreted it as a more general“Guys, just keep asking until she says yes. And women, just say yes, even if you aren’t interested. It worked for my friends”.....which is terrible advice.

If you know the people involved, it definitely gets a little more complex.

The advice I would give would not be for her to “just suck it up and deal with one date”, but rather telling him to “knock it off dude, she isn’t interested”. Of course, I’m the kind that would have cut off all contact with him as much as possible after the second him not taking no for an answer.

As long as you say it to a person who you are sure won’t murder you. Because men murder women for that kind of thing.

Go with the classic, “Our date was so bad, I‘m trying to work things out with my ex.”

Ever roll a stop sign with a cop looking and he just gives you a stern look?

Find the biggest guy around and hop on his back

As others have pointed out: open office floorplans are pretty brutal. However, “offices for all” ain’t gonna happen, snowflakes, so contain your griping and come to terms with being neighbors with somebody.

Please, please, please don’t sing at your desk. Ever. I had a desk neighbor for years who hummed and sang. I asked her several times to stop. She stopped briefly. Until she finally moved to another department, she made work a total hell.

This is why white collar professional workers need offices, with walls and doors.

Yes, it costs money for the employer - but it makes it easier for the workers to actually do their jobs

I used to install office cubicles for a living - occasionally, at the very end of the job I’d get to actually meet the workers who…

I love it when people reference Ron Swanson as an ideal person to be.

Don’t clip your nails at work, I don’t get why this is an ongoing problem at my office, we’ve had several offenders. 

You respect her enough to care when she’s wrong, which is all any commentator can ask for.

I can respect Cardi’s mind and her work ethic, be interested to hear her political views, love to chat with her about FDR’s New Deal’s impact on world politics, surmise with her on the impact Elenor had on his personal politics and STILL be pissed as fuck at her for her anti-trans statements.

A common reason to drift away in those circumstances where the conversations just start to dry up after someone marries or enters a long-term relationship is that the friend just doesn’t care for the new partner. They might not hate the partner or think badly of them, but it’s a little awkward to hang out with a person…

Yeah. I found her description of the relationship very clear, though, and I think so long as she leads with that relatively early in a potential relationship it’s pretty easy to decide whether or not that’s something you could handle. It’s only awkward if she waits so long that she ends up in a stammering explain-fest…

Because she is already jeopardizing their relationship by being a twat to other people he dates?