While I completely agree that the guy is insecure and quite probably an asshole, I kind of get it. I understand it’s unhealthy, but I can only take a guy seriously as relationship material if he is significantly less attractive than I am. Even when they’ve shown great interest in me, it’s been difficult for me to take…

Every relationship is different though. My husband and I don’t have a fast and hard rule—but we very strongly discourage hanging out with the opposite sex alone (unless it’s people we REALLY trust). Maybe hetero relationships are different, but with our histories, it works out for the best this way. It’s not always…

Unfortunately, for the most part, yes. Even if your spouse is very trustworthy, there are too many people out there just waiting to pounce—both men and women. I’ve never had a male friend who at some point didn’t want something more. And I’ve had a lot of male “friends.” And there are plenty of women looking for any…

K sounds like one of those women who likes to keep a guy around and have her claim on him without really respecting him. She waits until he’s engaged to plant a kiss because it’s a convenient time for her (maybe she’s low on men she’s stringing along) and she sees his new fiancee as taking what’s hers—leaving her…