It is not about being “better” than someone. You tried it and failed. It is about people assuming you don’t “belong” somewhere where and them treating you differently when we should all be treated with respect. But clearly, that went over your head. I treat the maid/custodian with the same respect and human decency…

1,2,6,7,8,10 I am all here for. My fav is 7 though. Since I travel for a living, and am always in first class, they are always surprised bc I actually get paid to travel and love what I do plus they think I am super young. I love when they crowd the gate well before their group is called and when I have to say “excuse…

As a single, 30+ woman, this paired with “when are you getting married?” are the most annoying things I am asked. My ring finger and womb are MY business and when there is a change to them, if I would like for you to know, you will be informed. Until then, mind your own.

Take an epsom salt bath. They do wonders for sore muscles. That and a steam room/sauna. I was just lamenting about how I have to ice my knees about 3 times a day due to arthritis but I still lift weights and exercise. I just started back working out regularly lately after the scale hit 215. I don’t have time for those…

Food made with love ALWAYS tastes better.

Exactly. Grits are meant to be savory. If you want sweet, get cream of wheat. Keep that sugar away from my grits!!!

She looked amazing!!!!

I have seen too many folks eat without washing their hands so I know they don’t wash their hands before they cook. Their kitchens are prob unsanitary and if I did a swab test on any surface I could prob grow all types of cultures. Not to mention folks who let their aninals be everywhere and dont wash their hands after…

lol. Don’t you judge me. Lol

I use mayo on the outside of my grilled cheese. The egg gives your bread a nice buttery toast.

I feel he gave her fair warning n it was her fault bc she didn’t get out the way when warned if she didn’t want it on her...lol

But I felt he gave her fair warning when he said he was on his way... I feel the face shot was her fault.

Thank you for sharing this!

Exactly! No shade, but you can tell from the sponge someone has not been pre-rinsing bc of the food particles on it. People literally have no idea how much bacteria they breed in their kitchen from various things. Sponges being one of the main ones. In my food science research we did a study on bacteria in kitchens…

This is what should be done, it helps to kill mites too.

I don’t see why they just don’t get cream of wheat then. Don’t ruin grits with sugar...ugh

EXACTLY!!!! I had this discussion with someone the other day. He knows how to pick them. He has steered clear from 2520s bc he knows the moment he crosses that line, he will end up under the jail.

Have you tried talking to someone? I know that has helped me a little with my BDD, even though I have a long way to go. Baby steps.

I think for some of us, it is truly body dysmorphia. Like, we hear what you say, but when we look in the mirror, we do not see the same thing. Like Sham said, I wish I could see the same thing my loved ones see. Every once and a while it peers out, but it is very seldom. It is literally a constant struggle that people…