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lol you're insane

i don't wanna bring it up because it's not the place, but if you still have things to say, that article is still available.

it's ok, ppl seemed to understand what i meant.

I don't wanna bring that whole conversation into these threads but you weren't simply making a case for the boy described in the letter (dan savage did that well & gracefully enough himself). The conversation had moved on to the topic of sexual assault in general. There were people sharing their own stories all over

oh bullshit. this isn't about our inability to watch tv as good as you. you were over at the savage love article too, asking ppl to be more sympathetic to straight guys in the context of a discussion of sexual assault. this is obviously a special important point for you to keep making that has nothing to do with

omgggg wow

They didn't get picked up?? oh noooooo

definitely. i forgot to add the qualifier 'do-nothing' to the type of neoliberal i hate…

you weren't raped by Greg yourself, so stop hating on him so intensely

you have the worst opinions about rape

abe was everything i hate about neoliberalism right down to him living off of someone else. 'i'm not racist, so i won't describe the person who stabbed me. even though this means A PERSON WHO IS STABBING PEOPLE IS STILL OUT THERE'

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hear hear

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Are you a heterosexual woman? Shut the fuck up & learn to show respect & empathy for situations & perspectives to which you have no natural access.

No. I've been here longer than you & I'm actually contributing a perspective. Go fuck yourself.

Nah I'm 29 & I've had a solid decade of various sexual experiences, as well as talking to other women without the presence of men, as well as studying all of this. I am part of the demographic you wanna poll. Sounds like you have a resistance to learning or considering modifying your theories when confronted with

No it has nothing to do with sexual experience or age. It's about your personality, empathy, awareness, ability to pay attention & sense of entitlement to someone else's body— which could improve with a conscious effort to be a better person but often doesn't because no one gives a shit about the victims to call you

Being called a slut for having open boundaries is harmful & so is being called a prude for having more closed boundaries. Check out the women on these threads being called virgins or immature for even talking about the need for consent.

I understand that it's not about assault for you. But you're wrong.