But like, so what? Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. You stick your dick in a lady, this is the consequence. If your marriage can't handle that, then maybe you should keep your bedroom door shut.

She doesn't **have** to. The question is should she, and the answer (so long as she doesn't fear for her safety) tends to be yes, so that he can understand the true consequence of his choices. And also, to the extent he's not a d-bag about it, he should be given a right to be heard.

Dan did a panel with a few sex workers on his podcast a couple months ago and this question came up. For my money they were pretty blase about it ("we all got into this willingly, and the people we know got into this willingly, so you shouldn't worry"), but at least you know that **those three** aren't being…

Duh — he lives on the Internet.

He's not going on Fox News. And admit that he sleeps around? More importantly, admit that he lets someone else put it to the pussy that **he** owns?

But like I said in another comment, that's analyzing the situation as if his happiness is the most important consideration. It's not; more important is making plain how much men benefit from women's reproductive choices, because plenty of men compartmentalize and pretend it has nothing to do with them.

No way, man. The price of admission for fucking someone is that you have to deal with the consequences of that. You don't get to live in blissful ignorance while the owner of the uterus has to deal with all the stress of the decision, and then has to spend every interaction with you for the rest of your friendship…

But, like, how do you get from one to the other? What's the worst-case scenario here? That they lose a friend because she killed his baby? That kind of friend they can do without.

She doesn't care about his opinion.

That's the failure rate for protecting against pregnancy. They protect against STI's at a higher rate, even with typical use. Of course, if you're going to be in any kind of non-monogamous situation, you should learn correct use.

Lynda Carter was the perfect woman then, Lynda Carter is the perfect woman now.

When my wife reaches 120, I plan to trade her in for two sixty year olds.

I thnk you're probably wrong about that. Male privilege is a powerful thing.

I believe he recently has. But Finger was a ghostwriter, so I don't see the moral case for crediting him. (In terms of historical accuracy, sure.)

Me too. I found him distracting.

Man, pun threads. Isn't there a way of screening these out? Maybe some sort of registration?

Well maybe he did, but if so, like ten years after Plum stopped writing about him.

Right, but it also looks plenty sketchy when an upstart team is down by one and the ref lets the game continue well past when time would be expected. That's why Americans think the clock is superior. It takes all that guesswork out of the equation.

Your apostrophe is misplaced.

In my extremely limited experience, it seems to me that the refs never blow the final whistle when a team is in the middle of an attack on goal. Which is kind of bullshit, but I guess if it's what you expect going in, you can't get too het up about it. (Like when people argue the neighborhood play in baseball as if…