As usual, "better sex education" is the answer. It's a better answer than worrying about censoring your kids after a certain age, or doing more harm than good.

Probably, yeah, but he might become more thoughtful about sex if he realizes that sometimes his partner let him do things that are actually very unpleasant for her. Yes she should've been open with him, but her intentions were selfless and good - lots of people "take one for the team" to please their partner, only to…

Thanks! I came up with that on the fly

My solution is to have everyone who was responsible for and who wishes to emulate Jackass sent to an island from which there is no escape, as I think that captures the Venn diagram of a lot of these issues. But this is probably both illegal and also nowhere near enough to fight bad sex ed and the evil that lurks in…

The biographical movie American Me painted the chilling picture of a teen who's sent to juvie, where he's raped on the first night. He kills his rapist, for which he goes to a prison which is almost a rape factory. He gets out decades later, meets a nice woman… and their first lovemaking attempt turns into rape…

Your last sentence offers up real material for debate: we have to stick to the line that video games and movies don't make people do things, if only (a) to fight against thought control/censorship and (b) because Stalin and Hitler and others didn't have any violent video games or movies egging them on…

Yeah, all the rough shit better be suggested by the person to whom it's going to be done. A simple "do you like" or "do you want" or even "do you mind" is advisable even for smaller stuff like slapping someone's ass or recreational spanking, so rougher and potentially dangerous stuff is definitely not "but I thought…

That is true, I don't want to offend all the people in hell. Just the bigots and sociopaths and avaricious people who are likely to get others killed for profit

In my country, we have this myth about the krunk girl, and let me say this - you are no krunk

For just a moment, I forgot that your fetish was watching comedians hug people

"If you get too close to him, a man will break your wrist and arrest you.
And when he orders bulletproof glass, he prefers Lexan."

FG, if only because Major's buddy found out about it - or, as someone cleverly suggested, it was maybe Ravi's former boss. His former boss who was allowed to work around all their secret experiments, and who banged him in order to serve her court-appointed duty part to forestall a CW relationship. And then completely…

That is a very interesting possibility… and I hope those pies are delicious, but poisoned!

Agreed on all points. And that's a very interesting possibility, plotting for 22 and ending up with 13. I don't like the idea of dominatrix murder and hacker poisoning being traceable back to a private military corporation, but it's now all so diffuse that I'd be amazed if they can make this land at all.

Thank you for proving my point, Denise!

It sounds like you both had communication issues with each other, and the activities she pushed you toward were something that became the norm. Sounds like neither of you were entirely happy with it, which is a shame.

When I complained about this sort of thing once ages ago, people here convinced me that there's a lot of, uh, gentler porn or couple's porn or whateversuch. I wasN'T shopping for masturbation material, I was worried about the effect of what's depicted in mainstream porn on people who are too stupid/inexperienced to…

Guys were insensitive and sexually selfish long before the interests made porn widely available. Seeing incredibly attractive women be used like a sexual punching bag - and screaming (oh so earnestly I'm sure) how good a time they're having - sends the wrong message to anybody who doesn't have enough experience to…

He tried to go classy with a physical letter, but he neglected to add consideration and sincerity. I'm sorry, but at least you know how worthless this dude was. I would've voted that you vent your feelings at the guy, but I wouldnt dissuade you from taking the high road.

Assholes tend to be stupid, in one way or another. That's why it's mind-boggling