How mind-blowing sex can be with the same gender, if you're so inclined. Puts me in a mindset where I try to understand others different than me and not as judgmental. Oh, and mind-blowing sex.

I understand what you're going through, I did at that age as a young bi guy. For example, I had a FWB in college that was constantly telling me I was gay and that bisexual is cowardly term for people who refuse to acknowledge who they were. He was in the closet as a gay guy like I am as a bi person, and often said…

I blurted out a guy's name while being blown by an ex-girlfriend. We broke up and it was awful, along with some really horrible things she said out of left field (homophobic, nasty stuff) I lived in fear for a long while I was going to be outed as bi. This was back in the early 90s when it was still a bad thing.

I don't know if this is outlandish or weird but my first wet dream was where I was fucking Julie from the Love Boat. I mean, I never was turned on by her but there she was, in my dream.

I fooled around with my sophomore year roommate on a regular basis, and he claimed to be like me, bi. However, we were talking about hetero sex one time and his aversion to going down on a woman raised an eyebrow, because he sure enjoyed going down on a dick. His excuse was a dick is "drier" than a vagina. Then I…

I don't like it either and I had it done to me once and didn't like it. But hey, it's what people are into in some cases.

my wife told me she had a similar situation, started dating a guy who was afraid of fucking her, three months before college. She's bisexual, and told me she gave him a dear John phone call right after being fucked with a vibrator by her roommate. It's crazy to be in a relationship before going to college, especially…

As my wife and I found out, overly-judgmental family members can respond to stuff like sex they don't understand in some truly horrible ways that make just about any consensual sex act pale in comparison on the Fucked-Up Scale.

I think she's more concerned about the money, which I totally get. But still, the invasion of privacy is ridiculous.

I've posted this on the AV Club before but my wife is Korean and bi (I'm a white bi dude). We have an agreement on an open marriage that has rules and it works for us. Her mom is a Korean Christian who caught her with a friend when she was a teen and never let her forget it. She got fed up one time with her mom and…

Dear Savage Dik,

Hooboy…NSA needs to be careful especially if he is in the closet. I'm bi and few know about it, and back in the mid 90s I hooked up with a college guy I met via a classified ad (these were the ol' pre-Internet days). It was a several night stand and then the guy went back to his hometown for the summer. About 8 months…

Absolutely. I'd buy a shirt.

Ha….no…and this was a long time ago (1997). I actually saw him recently and he's full-on gay. Which I find sort of interesting because he was one of those "I'm not full gay" types.

How do you think FDR ended up in a wheelchair? Eleanor knew her way around a strap-on.

I had this experience where I met a guy online, I was 30 and he said he was 18 and wanted to try sex with a guy. I liked his pics and figured what the hell, give it a try. We had several hookups, then he confessed to me he was 16 and had a father who was a low-level Republican local politician. That scared the hell…

Well, I'm bi, and when I was exploring that side of my sexuality the thing I hated about those types of guys were the last-minute cancels. I guess I understand to a degree…we live in a society where a lot of closet/confused are made to think at best they are weirdos and at worst are going to end up in hell. But it…

Somehow I think I remember that but not sure. Hustler had some crazy cartoons back when I was growing up in the 80s, imagine they still do.

My wife and my mother-in-law haven't spoke in 15 years over her bisexuality. She was caught in the act as a 17-year-old, and since her parents are Korean Christians, the freakout was profound and she put her through all sorts of hell until she left for college in a year and a half. She kept bringing it up and right…

Agreed. Love it.