Yeah, there were some blanket statements about "white people" and our supposed fragility that I felt crossed the line and I flagged. I'll look for them…

My body, my boner. You're right..

I'm talking about just looking at someone. Just the simple act of "gazing" that everyone does. Where'd you get the rest from? It sounds like… well, its kind of sounds like you are proving my point, that merely looking at a woman means I feel I have the right to intrude on her privacy and nelgect any kind of decency,…

So how about this - when ogling causes harm, it should be criticized and condemned. Would you agree with that statement? Because then we can move on to the question of whether it actually does. And did I get anything wrong?

And men are portrayed in ways that appeal to women sexually, in media. Seems fair to me.

It's your life.

I would and have advised men in the exact same manner. It has nothing to do with you being a woman, it has everything to do with you being inexperienced, and overconfident. What I have said is backed up by studies and statistics: Carrying weapons, knives or gun, increases the chance of said carrier experiencing…

Disagree, its partly inherent and partly socialization. Humans aren't blank slates.

It was a genuine concern for your safety, and I wasn't upset. Carrying weapons is a good way to bring violence to yourself. Though, your nonchalance towards taking human life is what disturbed me.

Her popularity doesn't concern me in the least. Do what you think you need to do.

First of all: Thanks for actually engaging me, your tact and genuine interest is appreciated. Now, to your questions:

Never claimed it was, or should be my personal playground. Ridiculous statement.

Let's make this clear: The statements in question were anti-white and racist.

She did, it was. *shrug* I'm flattered.

Flag away. that's your right. Odin knows I've flagged enough of your anti-male and anti-white racist statements.

Or, you know, I've read enough to get that exact message.

You're welcome.

If its Feminists writing about male sexuality, I know exactly what the subtext it. "Male sex bad, woman oppressed"

"male gaze" get the fuck outta here with that sexual shame bullshit. Men like looking at physically attractive women, women like looking at physically attractive women - and men! I just had the check-out girl stare at my crotch, blatant bulge-ogle. So what the fuck is the problem? We all like sexy people, and we like…

Good for you, this is really good progress, like the confidence I am reading here and it sounds like the girls were comfortable with you and had fun as well (that's huge). Sounds like they were even lobbing some balls over the net so you could play back at them.