Yes, the capitalization thing is an established, deliberate thing in the D/s community -  note the capital D and lower case s.

I've shared embarrassing moments like this with women who have then tried to convince me that I was assaulted, violated, abused, whatever. They will not accept the idea that the poor guy might have been far more traumatized than I ever was.

Oh, it's okay hon. I really didn't know what I wanted either.