Amy has never been averse to being called pretty or sexy, or getting a tiara. You weren't being cruel, you were being logical. Often that seems cruel to those who aren't logical.

What Amy did was absolutely wrong. After batting it around with her friends (women) and finding her opinion in the minority, she worked secretly and unilaterally to kill the article. Not only did she deny Bernadette the right to be in it, one must assume that there were other women who wanted to be in it. One woman…