How do you know that she wore this for the male gaze? Unless you can read her mind or she makes some statement like, "I wore this to turn men on", we have no proof of that. It's an opinion rather than fact. Second, we can't really decide if a consensual, abuse-free choice is or is not empowering for another,…

Objecting to someone's clothing because you find it unattractive isn't slut-shaming. But objecting to women showing nipple when you have no problem with men showing nipple is, indeed , sexism. You and I will have to agree to disagree on the bold and progressive argument. Because of society's attitudes about nudity, I…

I struggle with these two ideas a lot in my head. I've decided that if a woman is proud of her body and wants to show it off then that is, by definition, not kowtowing to the patriarchy. Because she's doing it for herself and not for men. If that makes sense. I'd love to hear some more people's thoughts on these two…

If she wants to use her sexuality to express herself, shut up and let her. Im fucking tired of "morality" police. Everyone please calm the fuck down. Slutshaming of Rihanna is seriously out of control. Its just another way to shame women and their bodies. Female sexuality is POWER and society has spend MILLENIUMS…

Really? We all complain from time to time, but I don't know anyone who actually regrets having them or would tell someone else not to. I'm not 100% overjoyed by my kids every moment of every day but just thinking about not having them makes me well up. On the days they are particularly irritating or exhausting my…

This is the first time I've ever clicked on this here little feature and I definitely feel like I'm worse off in life for having done so. Like, I wasn't hung over, despite the full 5th I drank and the 4 hours of sleep, until just now. Thanks so much.

I think Taylor and Karlie have established a new upper limit for whiteness... their whole adventure has gotta be at least 8.8 gigahonkies.

How dare you question Taylor's BRAVERY!!!

This was THE WORST episode of New Girl in it's 3 season history. I was CRINGING through the entire fucking thing. That stupid scene where Jess plays dress up for Prince, did nothing for the storyline, was not cute at all.

Also: I didn't know much about Bruno Mars before this, and halftime was right around the time the brownies started kicking in, so I spent the entire performance clutching my chest and yelling "I'M JUST SO PROUD OF HIM. HE IS DOING SUCH A GOOD JOB. THIS IS GREAT." while the bar's security guy rocked out beside me.

Someone actually married you?

'Cept there is literally no reason at all to not be able to have sex. We have birth control, we have abortion, if we had adequate access to both we could have all the sex we want. There is no downside.

HAHAHAHAHAHA you're funny. What's it like to live in an alternate reality?

"it turns out that he's a bottom."

I agree, but it's also good to cut down on all the bullshit as well. Having a glass of wine a week is pointless to me (because I drink to get all warm & fuzzy inside, not for the fake benefits or taste), but if someone wants to have one little glass, they shouldn't be poisoned with fear. If you're going to poison…

I still consider Obama one of my best friends on a personal level. But our professional relationship has suffered a lot recently.

I haven't even seen the second season yet (still binge-watching the first) and I already see him as a villain. Every time I see Fitz and Olivia I can't help but think this is a purposefully toxic, incredibly unhealthy relationship that's not meant to be romantic. When Olivia says "I want devastating, painful love" as…

Parsed properly, this post has some terrific information in it, and thank you for that. But the message on red wine consumption isn't contradictory or confusing in the least: drink in moderation and consider any medical conditions in your present, past, and family history before imbibing. Enjoy!

I reached the part where she stated that she couldn't break the cord with her teeth because, "as a vegan, that did not appeal to me."