Jeff is entitled to his opinion and I am also entitled to lower my great esteem for him.

Sorry but the officially unsanctioned but nevertheless tolerated Nihilist Arby’s did this better, earlier, and more consistently.

For the opening number of an awards show, it’s best not to reference a recent iconic performance from another artist at another award show. 

The thing is - and I’m going to assume you are someone who legit just doesn’t know this, as opposed to Healing Crystals who is an out and proud SWERF and TERF - decriminalisation protects both sex workers AND trafficking victims. Peer support sex worker organisations clearly distinguish between sex workers and…

Towards whom does one climb in Toronto?

That was like a Nazi fever dream. 

Ahhhhh. There we are. You think they are selling their bodies. They are not selling their bodies, they are selling sex and sexual experiences. They are also not selling their soul. Their bodies still belong to them, no matter how much money they are given.

Thanks for the reference.  I wish you the best in whatever direction you want to go in your career.  

Why shouldn’t she have a career that she likes and finds fulfilling? Honestly that’s more than I can say about most of my working life. Are you also against celebrating women who work in other parts of the service industry, such as waiting tables or retail? You sell your body and your sanity in a lot of careers, but…

On the contrary that's ABSOLUTELY judgmental. 

Oh my fucking god you didn’t think this comment through very much, did you? She can fall down some goddamn stairs and hurt the baby, honey. Ughhhhhhhhhh I knew that I should have just read this wonderful, insightful interview and not even ventured into the dumbass comments. 

Got it! You support the right of women to make their own sexual choices and to have full bodily autonomy... so long as they’re the choices you agree with. SO FEMINIST.

Because her taking it actively prevents trans people from using their own voices in a system where they already experience extraordinary marginalization and erasure. She’s an active participant in the oppression of trans folks by taking this role. How is that not clear?

“I was so busy maintaining the status quo that I forgot to remember that women matter.”

lol nice try Bobby but my boyfriend would be on fire

My guess is that she’s black, a former stripper, and unashamed - therefore, some awful people think that she must be an unfit mother. I mean, what kind of terrible woman plays dress-up with their kid? Besides most mothers everywhere.

Saw this yesterday as well and it was a lot better than expected! And yes, for the first time, it was a truly sex positive movie about teens. The movie went out of its way to depict the prospect of teen sexuality as not raunchy or tantalizing (see American Pie) but also not dirty or bad or a Big Mistake that leads to…

Saw this Saturday (thanks moviepass!) and we were surprised how much we liked it. It’s a much kinder film than any of the trailers show, which just depict it as an Apatow teen comedy. Beyond Mann and Cena’s characters, the rest of the characters are pretty progressive and sex-positive. And the gross-out moments were…

Yes, BAKING, that most hyper-masculine of activities.

There is a reason why all true MAN-CAVES must come with industrial-size Hobart mixers, Viking restaurant-quality ovens, and proofing drawers. Men will often engage in fisticuffs over whose cupcakes are better. The sheer testosterone required to mix flour with…

Ex-professional dominatrix here. I had a few findom clients but chose not to focus my practice around it. I found that the guys can be REALLY high maintenance. People often think findom is an easy, no effort way to make money (a mistake people make about sex work in general) but it is NOT.