Well that’s an extraordinary situation. I’m glad your family members survived.

Omg that’s gross

People do not respect the mom clothes. That is true n

Omg same

I am at that weird stage where the boobs lol better but the stomach looks really really bad. 

I don’t feel the same but I can totally understand. For all those moms who struggle with babies, just remember they change and grow pretty quick ! It’s true many moms or dads might not love every stage and that’s ok ! 

Yes if someone never did it or did it without all the know how, they might not realize. And example from me, I haven’t had herbs or herbal tea for literally like 4 years because I had an issue where it distrusted milk supply. Oh and cough drops. Can’t have those. People who aren’t in the situation might not know how…

I needed to make breast feeding a bit shorter than average for both of my kids. There were many reasons medical and other but even if those reasons did not occur I’m not sure I’d have gone longer. I was so relieved when it was done.

Word up momma 

Ah curiousity troll, welcome back. What’s next do you also have concerned questions about our vaginas? 

My three year old still drinks milk from a bottle like twice a day. It’s very true that we all do our best with what we have. 

I love my baby leash. I used to think they were insane until I tried to get an 18month old to hold my hand while walking down the street. I use mine like back up. I try to make like it’s not there but if she breaks free it’s a back up just Incase. People (men with no kids) give me dirty looks and I do not care.

And that carrier underneath is perfect for the case o schliz chasers 

Team baby leash forever (only when absolutely needed for safety)!

Yep and I know local laws in i think North Carolina landed a woman in jail like last year for cheating. They covered it here. 

Thanks yeah. I lived through actual war in an actual war zone and cell phone updates meant bombs dropping within ten feet of where I stand. Does that get me credibility enough for you, internet judge?

Same. I grew up with a guy whose mom literally left a reservation to marry his dad. He looked very native and knew very much about the culture and ways. He was completely denied from any connection by the elders but he eventually found a group from another tribe (basically a different culture) who accepted him and…

“I constantly have to deflate”

If we were truly and inclusive society we’d accept these varied experiences and varied backgrounds as part of the rainbow if you know what I mean. We aren’t. We’re so racist we need to know how brown someone is so we know how much to hate them basically. 

I think you further illustrate a very important question that all of us with open minds and hearts need to answer - who gets to “claim” an identity.