The Monogrammed Thermoses started in a BCO post a while back. It was a famous Italian restaurant where a customer was having a panic attack because he was afraid he was going to be attacked by the mob because he's "a very important person. I sell monogrammed coffee thermoses."

I starred this because monogrammed thermoses.

"She's only a model."

I'm going to ungrey every Roo comment I come across.

I love your Christmas name.

I actually love dirty talk, but I have to get to know someone a bit and something about what turns them on though. Otherwise it's a bit more difficult.

Honestly, I love a good laugh or giggle. It shows she's enjoying herself.

It's true. I have done this and other people have done this to me. It sucks. I vow to RSVP properly from now on.

Obviously, my reply was more... KINJATASTIC than theirs were.

Same here! And then I go there a couple days later and they're back!

We're both guys (as stated in your initial post) I'm not mansplaining shit.

If it happens to you repeatedly as you say in your original post, you're not dealing with it. I have multiple friends who have kids (and am an uncle to two nieces and two nephews) and none of them have become "one issue" friends, simply because if it ever became that I'd talk to them about it.

I'm a guy, and just because a porn is shot in a documentary style doesn't mean it isn't still a fantasy. Porn is like looking at sex through a lightly bent funhouse mirror. Real sex is messy, silly, a little awkward, but fun as hell, where porn is meant for show. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's not meant…

Yes, I'm being condescending, but all you're doing is complaining that they've become a one-issue person and not saying you've taken any steps at all to resolve it. If you've taken no steps to resolve the problem you're having, you're not acting like an adult and explaining how to resolve the problem should help you.

And that's when you talk to them like an adult and say "Hey, I get that your pregnancy is a huge deal in your life, but it's pretty much the only thing we talk about any more. Can we talk about it just a little bit here and there and talk about other things the rest of the time? Maybe we can talk about it for…

Oh, the prosecutor was absolutely to blame for the reason there's not a trial.

I get this all the fucking time. I talk to people, I like hanging around them, I like spending time with them, but I ALWAYS have to initiate. Always. It wears me down so much. I'll call (or set up a FB event) and invite a number of people, and then I have to remind people to show up, and even then sometimes it's…

I have a friend who most of her friends dropped her when she became a parent. I still hang out with he because she's cool. Sometimes, yeah, I have to talk about her kid, but her kid is cool too.

I'm going to a birthday party next weekend for a Historical Friend. We've been friends for 20 years. We don't hang out a lot, but we do have fun when we do.