I assume the Ben Carson solution would have been for all the cheerleaders to send him nudes at once...

People routinely say that women “feed off of drama” or love drama or try to create it. It’s a blame tactic and it’s condescending.

I’m not always confident. Just tired. Black women influence pop culture so much but are rarely rewarded for it.

Good for her. There's no reason for her to take that shit.

The problem is that the definition you just posted there isn’t what she meant. Humanism has zero to do with equal gender rights. Feminism promotes the nice easy balance she spoke of. She meant feminism, but she was afraid to say it.

There’s nothing wrong with being a humanist, but saying you are in response to a question of whether you’re a feminist implies that humanism is an alternative belief system about equality of the sexes, when it has nothing to do with gender.

It disappears sexism (real sexism; not “misandry”) as an axis of oppression.

Yeah bro totally! Like if she walked into my room I’d be like WTF is this? How dare you even think I’d lay with thee. Make me a sandwich and leave!

Yes! We’re all organisming right now! You, me, everyone in the world is organisming! Our cells are organisms that make up structures like our hearts, lungs, our bones, and our skin! Every moment of our precious lives were organisming until we can organism no more!

I'm going to stop defending my choices to assholes and just start using the simple but brilliant sign off "because fuck you that's why."