My dad complained to me once that my brother wasn’t very motivated or ambitious unlike me. I had to carefully explain that because my dad favored my brother, sent him to private schools, gave him money to travel, paid for tutors, and put him in a room with wealthy elite people so he could marry one, which he did, that…

And now their youngest. Today, he made a post about their daughter Chicago on Instagram, sharing photos taken of her using a silly Snapchat filter that adds makeup. Anybody who has spent any time around kids in the last 5 years knows littles LOVE playing with those Snapchat and Instagram filters.

Anyway, he wrote,…

The thing about abusers is that they are very good at making you feel like you aren’t thinking logically. They gaslight everyone around you. They are charismatic and dangerous.

On the one hand I feel bad for Ye that he doesn’t seem to have that one person in his life who he actually listens to. That one family member or close friend who tells you to cut the bullshit and gets you hooked up with the help you need.

I mean, don’t you need to be a little nutzso to either love or hate yourself - since you are both the subject and the object? Don’t you need at least two personalities to pull that off?

Simple. Instead of saying “you should love yourself!”, tell them the reasons why you love them.

So what is the best response to someone saying they hate themselves?
I’m sorry/ that must suck/get therapy/ me too/
I seriously have no clue. The one thing about everyone being open about their feelings online is that you see a lot of fucked up sh!t. and its natural to want to show empathy in some way even if you can’t…

Japan was perfectly fine with ScarJo being cast. Many were actually excited to see her in the role. It was only the US that bitched about it. After all, it’s not like they don’t have 5 gazillion other big budget movies starring Japanese people to watch. It’s one of the reasons why Crazy Rich Asians flopped in Japan.…

I have a friend who listens to basically nothing but Scandinavian black metal and hard bop jazz (I know, right), and he thinks this is the most badass move since Prince decided to no longer be Prince in order to screw his former label. Respect.

You know when Braun first bought the catalog. Kelly Clarkson tweeted that Swift should re-record everything to F him over. I guess it was good advice!

There’s barely a handful paragraphs in this article, ostensibly about the Brittany Murphy documentary, that don’t frame everything about her life in terms of Britney Spears. What a way to defend her humanity.

I’ve seen a good number of reviews and takes that criticize this as a white savior narrative—and I don’t agree, but only because I’ve read the entire series (or rather, what Herbert completed of it prior to his death.)

Maybe they should’ve done this three fucking weeks ago when he turned up, alone, in HER van, refused to say where she was, and all mere days after they had a domestic incident so bad the police were called.

Anya was a bitter old woman turned into a she demon trapped in the body of a young woman.

So many great female characters in those two franchises ruined. What they did to Cordelia, Anya, Tara, not to mention the entire Buffy Spike relationship (which I really like except for that one fucking episode).

That was a fake vision of a fake future meant to make Xander hate Anya undeservedly. It was knowingly as ugly as possible. 

I guess big hoops can’t solve everything.

She has most certainly likely stolen WOCs’ work, tone policed them, spoken over them, and probably stolen their parking spot, promotion, and lunch out of the fridge. It’s never just one egregious act with these types.

I guess we’re all blind when it comes to ourselves, but.. this is a woman who has undoubtedly called for other people to resign, to make reparations, to step back. In the most recent example I could find, she criticized white people for taking up space in a city council meeting and told them to cede their time to…

One of my all-time favorite take downs is Natasha Simons’s “Reconsidering the Feminism of Joss Whedon.” Nearly ten years old but worth a read!