And I will answer. No. But I am in chronic pain lately. I never drink until after 8:pm, and I am a lightweight. I only mention this because I seriously want folks to know where I am and under what conditions while I read and comment. Your question is actually appreciated, and I’m sure that you are not the only one who…

I'm slightly innebriated and love your comment, Love your insight. I agree. There is this odd (yet to be sussed) connection between Damon, Affleck,Sr., Matt damon, Kutcher and - guess who-Tom Welling [of Smallvile/Superman fame]! The last two are (or at least were) "hot guys." They say K. and Tom both started as…

Sorry. I’m a fan of Fincher’s work (for the most part). I openly admit to being an Affleck-disser. I simply can’t understand how he is still in the “Industry.” Hope that helps, but if I keep beating on Ben I’m probably going to receive a dozen newly ripped "orifices". Ya know?

How can I summon MORE stars?

A hardcore fan of Fincher's work — except this. Love Fincher. We don't really need an evaluation of Affleck. Except from his directoral work (Gone Baby Gone), he hasn't, to my generous standards, done Anything I can respect or appreciate. He's a true "phenom." How does he still keep getting work?…

Holy crap! Do you realize that you are dealing with a commenter who doesn't know 1/3 of what you do, but was simply commenting on celebrity "hook ups?" Doesn't matter. Now I know all about it. Thank you, my dear for taking the time:)

Every time I think I've been brilliant someone smarter comes along and did it better. Kudos to you, my dear! Can we still pretend we are the only ones who thought of it?

Thanks girl, but I'm no EXPERT. When it comes to baby-making, Ill read anything, talk to anyone, whatever I need to do to make sure. But, yeah — "Murica=Money.

I appreciate that and absolutely agree. We girls can't seems to "win" no matter what. I've been searching for answers for years. Glue it? Why not just cauterize it? Good health to you:)

I'm not sure I follow you (and lately I can't tell if I'm getting dissed.) "American Slavery" and every other kind of necessary concession anyone has to make to the powerful just to "survive" is absolutely obscene. I don't get how folks don't see how this "strategy" hurts all of us. Cruel, inhumane slavery has been…

I hope I did not, DBSBPT. Seriously, I don't think that was me. That was a really hard, fast (VALUABLE) thread, and a lot was going on. I don't care for the pill. True. I want women to like each other because I believe in us. But that isn't the only reason why I hope that I would not sound judgy. If I offended you in…

Oh, also. Claiming you need their own spermacide is blatant shit. That's like Clarol telling me I have to usd Their conditioner with Their shampoo. Grrrrrr.

Of course - bureaucracy. The prescription nonsense. You already know that answer - MONEY.

For sure. Usually a solution. Unfortunately not for me — unwilling to solve one chemical problem with another. We are so different; which is why I'm calling for MORE perimenopause awareness!!!!! (Super different for every gal). We never think its' gonna happen to us; then it's like being out at sea, alone. Because NO…

Absolutely. This is a first-line treatment for this scourge — just not for me.

So very very true. Maybe I'm pushing too hard. But the day I said "no" to the pill was my first "YES" I'm the one in charge now! My feminism felt just a bit more OK.

Sure, I understand, and maybe I'm advocating a bit too hard for this method. It might be a good thing. OTC? Well, that's always good. I would try it. I still like my old stand-by though. And, damn you have to get a script for every other thing, But, thre's nothing like a fit especially for you (plus, maybe you can…

Aaaw. Blood, smlood, Better than weight gain, hormonal whatnot, remembering, Chemicals, bloating, mood changes, cravings. A little blood - no baby. This is only MY experience, but after the pill I developed PMDD which is a freak'in horror show for yourself (and everyone around you). Our bodies truly were not made to…

For the CAYA, which is new (article is a bit vague). You can still be fitted for the regular kind. Anywhere — well in America. Some docs consider it the gold standard for we who can't tolerate chemicals etc.

Apparently I have not considered the vast spectrum of vaginas and ease (or not ) of use. But, I think it is still at least worth a try ( and cheaper).