Only if you are a pioneer.

Actually Ms.Steak is the one losing time here. Rainey is angry, and this thread doesn't seem to be productive. Maybe best to simply disengage. Everyone can go her own way......?

You've made your position very clear, but name-calling isn't the best form of pursuasion.

I'm lining up with you in the "kinky aisle" where they sell hair products for (one presumes) WOC, because they are just about the only things that work on my personal follicular nightmare . I hope I'm not commiting appropriatiton by doing so.

I'm trying to make the best of it, just like everyone else. We all have challenges. It's hard. So when you say "it," not sure what you mean. But in a world of unfairness, mistrust and intolerance, more intolerance doesn't seem to be working for us. I'm doing what I can, which isn't much, because I have little power.…

As I argued once before, some guys really need facial hair....

LOVE the name of the feature.

I'm not qoing to argue about this, but I do think it's an oversimplification.

This metaphor doesn't really work for me.

The gods of lovehandles..................

I would question "survival," but don't want to argue about it.

God god, those outfits! Grey. Grey! And they look overly-warm and severly uncomfortable. Maybe I'm just too used to seeing actresses in next to nothing. But we all know by now that any kind of physical people-saving job requires Spandex or Spandex somewhere. Looking at the photo and fanning myself.

That was really my only problem. She is clearly referencing Beyonce, and, for me, the messeges that accompany that song. Cultural appropriation? I'm tired of the outrage. Celebs and real people have been trying out new styles of everything for a long time. If you are doing it to project a false reality about yourself…

Was not a bet. Let's get our rhetoric right: I said "I'm sure." I never make bets -at least not in Vegas. What you believe and what you do will be based upon what you think is right. We are all here to learn - maybe to teach. But If someone on this site (who has shaky rhetorical and grammatical skills) asks me for…

Thanks so much Town. I Actually remember pinball, but I totally suck at any kind of game:)

Goodness, Your story is more deserving of a "better" listener than I. I could make plenty of (probably dumb) assumptions if I knew the cultures at play here. But, even then....But if the two of you have already consulted a third party for help, it stands to reason that, if he is frustrated too, you can guide him back…

Perhaps because, right now, you are not feeling very optimistic (so damn hard). We are only human, and I know that you know that. For me, as an individual who wants to keep learning about everything I don’t know, I’m just grateful that folks are reaching out and talking, no matter their precision. I say “screw you to r…

Look. I don't know you. All I know is that, as an educator, people's seemingly lazy or ignorant grasp of spelling and grammar used to drive me wild. Not any more. These are, in many ways, "throw-away" sites. People have had a bit to drink, are tired, in a furious hurry, or any other number of reasons that would…

In my VERY humble opinion, it may be time for a GENTLE , very gentle, confrontation Don't know your age or how long you've been together, but if you are feeling emotionally "non-reciprocated".....well only my opinion, but you deserve some " heart honesty" from your fella. I'm not qualified to give sturdy advice, and I…

I'm just one in 7 billion people, so I dont matter much. Nevertheless: PLEASE FUCKING GO AWAY KARDASHIANS- FOREVER!