Ooh! you should try it with pineapple juice and a bit of sprite!

No one's every bought me lingerie, either, and I'd never really want anyone to buy it for me, expecting it to look like an ad, anyway. It's strictly something I buy for myself, in part *because* I know it never looks like it does on the models.

agreed, but same question — latex has always struck me as prohibitively difficult to wear.

eeeee! So cute! I want a dawggy! Stupid allergies. *kicks rock*

*sigh* I just looked at mine and got really depressed.

Hopefully the administration will read the very polite email and link to this story I just sent and hasten this event.

Start small, with one trendy thing. If you want to do color-blocking, try your black pants and cardi with something that really pops. If you want to try something baroque, get a huge ring or brooch or other accessory. Then, as your comfort level grows and you figure what works for you and what doesn't, build from…

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Idris Elba. It's time.

You did the right thing by naming these jerkoffs for exactly what they are: racist, rude children. If their parents don't teach them better, then someone else should.

obviously they aren't interested in learning about tolerance or anything else positive. And maybe this is a perfect time for an education from someone who doesn't share that mentality.

I really wish i was better at Internet Skullduggery, because I'd be all about outing every last one of these people on their facebook and linkedin pages, and maybe a link of their tweets to their bosses.

This x 100.

Sade, Maxwell and Van Hunt.

I was really surprised this was the first Sade comment! I thought for sure that would hav been an obvious choice.

.0001. But then again, I'm fat, middle aged, and black, so...

How do we 'hate' it? Because ultimately our ability to be pretty is far more valued by society than the ability to gestate another organism.

My boobs shrank!! And damned if I haven't gained back the 10 lbs that I lost with the baby. Damnit. I kind of miss the pregnancy aversions to food I once had. My lower stomach is a complete and utter horror. I've discovered that I can't watch porn anymore — not because of any new ethical/moral sensibility, but…

YES. exactly this. When it happened to me, I kept hearing stories from the few people that I did tell that they or someone they knew had a miscarriage. I had no idea it happened so much. Before that, the only person I'd known who'd suffered a miscarriage was my mom.

I started at work, and figured out what was happening. I knew I couldn't keep it together, so I told one coworker, said I was leaving, cried all the way home after calling the doctor and my husband. By the time I got home, I was bleeding so badly I went to the emergency room, where everything progressed rather…