I was pregnant and I had tons of pee in me. Still gained weight though.

Oh, for fuck’s sake.

Aw I’m glad to hear that. That does sound like a nice day. Keep doing those comforting things to help you get through this. I don't have any experience similar because I've never been married but I know it has to be really tough especially with the reasons you talked about. Keep being good to yourself :)

I am so sorry. Take care of yourself. I hope you have the time/money to get some guidance from a therapist, who will help you navigate this for yourself and your child(ren). Big hugs.

What do you need? I can’t provide much of anything, but I thought that might be a centering question. It might also help to consider whether he contributed to the stress as well. This reads as if you are simply all burden, no benefit, and I do not believe that is true, and I hope you don’t.

Thanks je suis cocopop xx hugs back

That’s really tough hon, I don’t know what to say. But you know, seven years is an accomplishment, most people on the autism rainbow have no relationships at all, in my experience.

Infinite hugs to you! That’s beyond a rough patch and while I can’t relate to all of your problems, I know the feeling of falling apart.

Big hugs.

I’m so sorry to hear this. I have no advice but I'm sending you some good thoughts and will be praying for you. Be good to yourself and try not to punish yourself. I know it's hard not to but just try and take care of yourself okay? I hope everything works out for you

Oh man, I’m sorry. That’s a huge amount of highly-concentrated suck. I think you’re doing the exact right thing right now by figuring out What Needs to Happen and whatever happens in your relationship, there’s a confidence in knowing you can get shit done all by yourself if you need to.

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m sending big hugs your way and wishing you lots of strength.

I am a 1/2 black 1/2 white person. I have loved and been attracted to many white people. But in my sexual statistical history, if one was to do a nuanced tally, it would appear I physically (and likely emotionally) respond better to black people.

My type is attractive women who are interested in me +- 5 years of age. I have a fairly broad definition of attractive that ranges from waif model to curvy. It is nice to have options.

I will concede to this when people from all races admit to this. We give white people shit for this but what about other ethninicites that refuse to associate with others? That’s bullshit, too. I’ve seen plenty of racial cliques and that’s not beneficial, either.

If your “type” is your race alone... you’re a racist. By definition.

Yep. Entwistle too! I mean, he was in his fifties, but still. People made jokes about how if they died, they want to go out with strippers naked by their side, but can you imagine how horrifying that would be for the stripper, how awful it was for him, and how terrible it was for the family? And learning the details…

Rosie has classic Narcissist syndrome. She seems charming and funny to strangers, but to the people who know her she is a raging egoist. Or at least, that’s my perception of her after her daughters incident and now this.

Right? “I hate the Kardashians so I can have no sympathy for a grieving widow” is absolutely the most disgusting mindset to be proudly displayed during this media cycle.