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I'm very conflicted about having positive feelings towards the Kardashians.

I'll try something scaled down. The other issue I seem to have is that Kinja tries to open a file when I upload a picture, but then Adobe says the file is corrupted and can't be opened. ???

Sigh... Some people! I'm glad you're not letting her rain on your parade.

And congrats on everything again! Enjoy this super awesome happy time!

I'm tired of cancer too. As crap as it is, it's... nice?... to hear someone else who is so young has dealt with this. My first diagnosis was at 25, and all the women in my support group were easily twice my age. Not that being older makes it easier, but my situation (new mom, very young) was so different than theirs

It IS. And I probably will end up a cobweb covered skeleton , but on the off chance things work out it's worth it.

Definitely. We've talked a few times this past week, and he's been the one to initiate all the conversations. I pretty much told him that I'm interested, and want to talk to him, but I wouldn't be calling until his life calmed down a little, with this exception of this upcoming Saturday to check and see if drinks are

I have no tips, but commenting & recommending in hopes that someone who does will see this!

I, random internet stranger, am here to say CONGRATULATIONS! on finding someone who is awesome enough for you to love and want to marry and CONGRATULATIONS! on training for a 5k! You have more dedication to that thing they call exercise than I ever will. Now please don't take this next bit the wrong way, but: your

I'm grateful for a dedicated team of doctors, and a similarly dedicated group of friends who constitute my "immediate family" as I have none. I'm grateful for my awesome kid, because even when she's being a little monster I still have more happy than I do without her. And I'm thankful for salt & black pepper crisps,

I was in such a nasty funk yesterday (health crap, boy crap, crappity crap), but today I pulled myself out of it, threw myself into a new dress project that I think is going to make me a knock-out when finished, and baked (bread, cookies) my crappity crap away. I'm ending my weekend on a dress making & baking high,

I'm so sorry *random internet stranger hugs*

Maybe if the timing isn't right now, it could be in the future?

Love this! My name can be pronounced two ways as it's spelled. One way (Terra) is really common in the United States. I hate it. Every other T-A-R-A I know calls herself Terra. They're all Womyn of the Earth, which is fine, but the sanctimonious speeches on how connected they are to the spirit of the world make me

I'm currently (kind of?) having boy drama.

I had a ridiculous crush on a friend / co-worker for years. We're talking long enough to get a kid through grade school and a decent chunk of middle school as well. Recently I realized how much I really, really have the feelings and posted to Jezzie asking how to get over him.

BOSTIE! BOSTIE BOSTIE BOSTIE BOSTIE!

That is all.

What Sperical Abberation said, and don't put yourself in the position where you're alone with the crush. Not that you would do anything, but it's easier not to if you don't have the chance.

Woooo! Feeling so much better today than yesterday. Still have not heard from Mr.-I-Have-a-Ridiculous-Crush and my boobie appointment is still casting a BLECH shadow over my otherwise stellar upcoming weekend, but I'm back to being all "Fuck it. If it's cancer it's early cancer and I will DESTROY IT because I'm

Awww thank you on both counts. Thankfully I got caught up in a new dress I'm making, so I'm feeling slightly less Pity Party and not checking my phone every 5 minutes!

Hugs. Waiting for the test, then having to wait for the results makes me so anxious. Hope yours is for something banal and unexciting like a... I don't know. Torn ligament? Do they do MRIs for those?

Thank you! The waiting is the hardest part

I'm pretty sure we've dated at least two of the same men. Then again poorly drawn AC/DC tattoos and mommy dependence ...