ashleynn11
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ashleynn11

Yes. And it’s disappointing that the assumption is that all women want to look this very certain way, and no challenge to that assumption at all. This is part of why fashion turns me off. Who gives a fuck what someone else wears? If they’re wearing it then clearly they like it, leave them alone.

Sometimes it’s a transgressive thrill to wear clothes that are actively unflattering. The idea we, as women, are supposed to want to look appealing under all circumstances is so ... just taken for granted. Especially if you’re usually read as conventionally attractive, it feels kind of amazing to go “fuck you, I’m

YES. THANK YOU. I dress like this, why? Because I actively do not want people ogling me and staring at my goods.

“So what, exactly, is flattering about this? .... no one, from any distance, could accurately guess your boob size?”

I dunno, given that the heat index is going to be somewhere between 105 and 110 tomorrow, I have to say that I really love the idea of a dress that just lightly sits on my shoulders and touches no other part of my body. Some of these are even kind of cute. I said it.

I also want to say that I also wear a lot of these styles and I believe this entire post to be a violent subtweet

I just want to say that I have worn a number of dresses that look very similar to the ones pointed out in this article and Ellie sees me every day and now I understand her blank smiles