Ah yes, Schrodinger's Queer: Gay men aren't real men, but trans women are the manliest men.

I’ve never met anyone who says “Not all men” in any of its myriad variations who is not part of the problem. Anyone who injects that into these conversations is willing to overwrite women’s experiences with their own sense of entitlement that their egos must be taken seriously.

I think about the time I posted the Margaret Atwood quote here and got flamed for days from men who thought it of vital importance that I recognize that it is #NotAllMen. They cited examples of all the times they got rejected and didn’t attack anyone (of course they didn’t get rejected very often because they were…

same. I find them very uncomfortable.

That was me too, but internet killed the video star.

Early on, they would play Metallica, because they didn’t have any other videos. Still, music and video combined? Hoodathunkit.

I loved Aeon Flux and couldn’t for the life of me tell you why. 

From one trans person to another, massive hugs! ♥ And out of the gray for you!

I would love to see a study that linked the advent of fact free advocacy with the rise of Fox News which, in turn, spurred other right wing media outlets. And then the internet of course and social media spurred left wing fact free conspiracy nuts as well.

Just saw why, so feel free to ignore this

My mom has implants and wishes she never got them. It all depends on your frame, but lots of times having bigger breasts just make a you look bigger in general. That’s the case in my family anyway. Plus smaller boobs tend to stay perkier longer! 

Non-textured implants overwhelmingly do not have this problem. And the “turning hard” thing is also fairly rare, I know folks who have had their implants for 15-20 years without issue. With that said, there are always risks, especially when you’re talking about implanting foreign objects into the body, and honestly if…

Don’t do it. Every time we remove them at my clinic we see how bad it can be. We recently took out a silicone set that had basically degraded to sticky loose lumps. The stuff was like semi hard white glue, and we still haven't been able to remove it from some of the tools.

Didn’t this article already get posted, maybe a month ago? Anyways, I’ll say here what I did there: This is awful. But! Before any Americans start patting ourselves on the back, take a gander at this map:

That was, so dear and touching. Thank you so, dearly and kindly for being open to sharing it with me. I’m really glad youre neighbor was willing to do that. We only know one of our neighbors and we’ve lived in our house for 5 years, so that’s, really amazing to me. I understand, the shared custody part. Despite…

Thank you, so much, for the reply, and for sharing what you did. I'm sorry you had to experience any of that, and I am grateful for your kindness and empathy beyond those experiences. Thank you for being a kind, good person.

hey, I’m no expert & I spend way too much time in my own company to think the inside of our heads is necessarily an idyllic place to live...

Thank you. I, do tend to find myself in circular thought that says, these things happened to you because you deserve it, you deserve to hurt. But I try to continue beyond that, trying to be the best example I can for my son. While I try to the the best of everything I can to protect him, to let him have as much time…

When my ex was arrested in 2007, on the military base we were living at, for spousal abuse, the judge (a woman) we went before, threw the case out saying women can’t be abusers, especially to other women. Because of that dismissal I was not able to keep my ex from assaulting our son, two days before his birthday last…