Nobody has to be nice to anybody. It's best to just be yourself, and if that self is a giant male asshole eventual you'll find a giant lady asshole to settle down with and have little assholes. Being fake is the worst.

Jason, mayhap some day you might want to do a 'house swap' for a couple of weeks. Kapalili & I could burn dead dinosaurs at an astounding rate, and you and yours could hang out at our Kona beach hale (not the white house, this was taken from our lanai). We've wondered if buying an old RV and bumming around the country…

If for some reason you find yourself in Indiana, you can drive/hoon my Trans Am all you want.

Dude, you have to accept the fact that no matter how polite and gentlemanly you are, you will still get rejected, because women are people, and they have preferences and sometimes you're just not what they're looking for. But guess what, you still have to be nice to us, because again, we are human beings and you can't…

Honest answer - you're probably not as much of a "nice guy" or an "awesome catch" as you think you are. Find a female friend if you can and double date with her and some other guy and ask their honest feedback.

And the thing is that's exactly what they think.

Wow. Anything to shift the blame of bad male behavior onto women. In all of your bloviate here, you really haven't acknowledged that he was way out of line. So out of line that the average person may not know what to do when presented with an solicited dick pic. But s'all her fault anyway amiright.

"Why continue the date if you were that bothered by it?"

and come with a side of buffalo wings. Because buffalo wings.

I imagine that in any situation where the dick pic works both parties were getting along well enough to where it would have been making an appearance in person soon anyway and didn't need its headshot on file. I can't imagine any situation where a date is going badly and the unsolicited dong shot salvages the…

I am fucking AMAZED by the guys that do this. I can't even wrap my head around it, it's like we're a fundamentally different species. My dick and I get along great and we have pretty high opinions of one another (well, I assume the well regard is reciprocated) but it has never once in my entire life occurred to me to…

She's clearly asking for it by owning a smartphone. If women don't want to get unsolicited dick pics, they should remove themselves from any medium (smartphones, Facebook, email accounts) where a man could possibly send them one.

Have you tried being taller? That usually works.

the part about the joie de vivre had me in stiches

It just occurred to me that that is what this is: electronic willy wagging. If you expose yourself in public to unwilling women you'll get arrested and savvy cops might wonder if you're going to keep going up the sex offender ladder. Do it in a text, though, and.....

Women get brushed off all the time too, though. You realize that this isn't about men being boorish while women aren't, right? For both men and women , being respectful is a good place to start.

Has a dick pic ever worked for anyone ever? "You have deplorable table manners, your stance on same sex marriage is alarming, and your relationship with your mother has a distinct Psycho vibe. However, your penis is pleasingly shaped and the crown has a certain joie de vivre. How soon can we marry?"

She answered that question. She also showed opposition to the dick pic in no unclear terms ("I do not like this thing you did, but I'm overlooking it and hoping we'll have a nice time the rest of the date" is only logically inconsistent if you have a three year old's tolerance for complexity). And how the hell do you…

Oh man, that would have been great!

You should have gone to the bathroom and said "I'll send you something too", then sent him a picture of a bigger dick.