Yeah, not every woman is into non-reciprocal blowjobs. Not even close. And even the ones who are into doing that, probably would enjoy doing it for a pretty small percentage of men.

I think that virtually any woman can hook up with a man. Definitely not always with whichever man she truly wants, but she can find a willing and suitable participant within a week tops. Few men can say this.

There are perhaps millions of women who would love to give non-reciprocal oral sex to various famous musicians, actors, and athletes. And, this probably happens all of the time. If I met my favorite male celebrity, and we somehow met and had a good time, there’s no way I would desire to give him a blowjob. You…

Yeah dude. I already stated that when I was younger I wasn’t speaking to women like human beings and I probably came across as boorish or at least not worth spending time with. By writing that, I thought it was implicit that I have learned from that and have improved.

Straight men don’t seek out other men to give non-reciprocal blowjobs. If he does, then he probably isn’t actually straight. It is conceivable that two straight men could exchange blowjobs for sexual release.

I am a man. Once a woman told me that after she broke up with one of her college boyfriends, she continued to hang out with his grandmother. She told the grandmother that he broke up with her, and the grandma would call the exbf and scold him for dumping this lovely young woman.

I just wrote a response to that. I went away for a few hours and came back. I had quite a few comments to respond to, and no, I probably won’t respond to everything. Sometimes this happens, I am effectively having a conversation with someone in relative real time, then a second person comes in, notices the…

Yes. Women have a considerably easier time hooking up than men do, but if a man manages to hook up, he has a considerably higher chance of having an enjoyable experience.

Yeah, I have written several times that hookups are more enjoyable for men on average.

Fran could probably give Arnold a blowjob. He would accept it, and offer her nothing more. Fran shouldn’t do this as it would be degrading and she should anticipate how much he is not interested in her. Fred couldn’t eat out Amanda, Brenda, or Carla if he wanted to as they would not accept it. He could possibly eat…

I also wrote several times that the hookup scene might be unappealing and degrading to women. This is entirely true, but many men cannot reasonably expect to enter the hookup scene, but for those who do manage, hooking up is generally more enjoyable for men than for women.

Yeah, those three things are absolutely not equivalent in their impact on a woman’s life. The woman who gets date raped, the woman whose husband regularly beats her, and the woman whose husband is a lazy bum who doesn’t do much with his life all probably feel that they made the wrong choice in a man, for different…

If a woman goes on a date with a man, who ends up raping her, that clearly was a “bad choice of a man.” Perhaps choosing to date him seemed like a great choice at the time because she didn’t know he was going to do that to her.

Speaking of Louis CK, 4 years ago, Jezebel had an article where a fat female character on his show gave a long monologue judging him for not wanting to date her, even though he is also fat.

First you say you met “outside of a bar,” and then you say you were students in the same class. Which is it? Or maybe you met her outside of a bar, but you recognized her from class. So, what was your “opening line”? I suppose if you recognized her from class you had several things to talk about. I thought she was a…

“Fran” could absolutely easily find a random guy to hook up with. Getting a prom date would be much more difficult. Fred isn’t in a better position to get either of those things. If that was your takeaway, it makes me think you aren’t reading my posts at all. It is fine to not read my posts, but if you’re going to…

I am not sure we are on the same page here so I will clarify.

I think that the female fear is winding up with a bad choice of a man. It seems that you and Louis CK would agree. Women don’t really have to worry about having absolutely no available male options.

High quality dates with their first choice of men? Yeah, probably not. But hooking up? Sure. Ugly women can find a hookup partner incredibly easy. I’m not talking about a meaningful connection. Can she score some dick to suck tonight? Yes. Is that appealing? No.

Yeah, the grading system is bizarre, or at least, I have never seen another person use an alphabetical name system like that. But you were able to completely understand it and follow it, which makes me think that the Arnold-Fred system is worth keeping.