Given the changes I've already experienced by 44, I'm heartened (albeit mildly horrified - mainly because of the odor thing) by your post. Thanks!!

The fact that I stated men have removed condoms without my knowledge before would imply that I was actually aware that they had done so at some point. And re: "every form of transitioning from one position to another", I can only say that we don't fuck the same way or pay attention to the same things while doing so. …

um...do you pay attention to where both your partner's hands are AT ALL TIMES during the entire length of a sex encounter? Ever transitioned from one position to another? Yeah...like that...with surreptitiousness.

I couldn't agree more.

And that's one of the reasons why I use female condoms. I've had enough guys surreptitiously remove condoms and had to listen to enough, "but it just doesn't feel the same" comments that I finally decided to take the control away from them. I'm not getting an STD because of a difference in sensation or some petty…

Grossest thing I've seen on public transpo (in this case, a bus): wound care for a festering foot wound of some sort...with the floor of the bus being designated as the trash can for the old bandages and wrappers.

Considering how few fucks I give in my 40's, I can only imagine how I'll feel four decades from now! It's good to have a role model in this regard :D (although I'll never be an official grandma as I will not have any children of my loins).

Does anyone else find it somewhat suspect that both of these posters misspell "cocoa" the same way? Wait...never mind...these guys are hardly a brain trust.

You realize, of course, that the average height of a woman in the US is 5' 4" and the average height of a man in the US is 5' 10". By extension, you're saying that, in almost every single circumstance, the woman shouldn't do anything because the man is bigger. Do you have any idea how fucking ridiculous that is?

Welcome to the wonders of narcissistic entitlement! The needs of others don't count! I can do whatever I want and it's totally healthy! You're broken for telling me that I'm broken for harassing and demeaning people!

"mama was getting her swerve on" = HIGH ART

A conspiracy of cartographers?