araxhiel
Anton Hill
araxhiel
Jun 27 2013
3

Yup, same here; I get annoyed by surprises like those, too. I always emphasize to people to let me know in advance what we're/they're planning. I repeat that in every email/msg until plans are mostly finalized.

Jun 27 2013
15

Man, you hit it completely on the head for me. It has everything to do with knowing ahead of time what's going on. I tell a lot of my friends that now. "Hey, I'm totally down for doing stuff or changing plans, just let me know what's up." I get annoyed if I think I'm going to spend the evening with one or two people Read more

Jun 27 2013
38

I find it easier to find friends with similar (not exact, cuz that might get boring) preferences as me. Case in point: some people like to spontaneously hit me up to hang out. As an introvert, I notice I tend to prefer to know in advance when I have to be in an extrovert situation. So if you ask me to hang out with Read more