I honestly don't know how you can keep replying to these people; they clearly cannot comprehend that a man (or any person) can feel crappy about their own situation without blaming / begrudging their partner, or assigning their partner as the reason for those insecurities - and can even be happy for their partner's…

I'm tired of all the clitics. Always stirring cuntroversy.

I have never said anything bad about successful women. I really feel like you are putting lots of really dumb opinions in my mouth when I really have only asked to not mock me for our irrational insecurities, that are still real no matter how irrational they are.

I am ugly and I generally feel powerless and rejected. I am also being told that I have this immense privilege, that I am the cause of lots of evil, etc. Was that last part an implied threat of violence or am I overanalyzing?

I am not blaming the movement for my insecurities, I have not done that. I just asked nicely to please not mock my insecurities which I didn't choose to have.

It's not jealousy. I can see that it looks similar to someone who doesn't experience this feeling, but as someone who has I feel clearly that it is not about superiority, but about feeling necessary. If there is no need for me financially I'd find myself obsessing over how little difference it would make if I were…

It's not a need to be superior, it is a need to be needed. I feel insecure if the woman in my life has no need for me economically. You can throw any and all insulting hurtful words at me for feeling that way, but that is how I feel whether I want to or not. I did not make patriarchy. I did not design my own…

Men, including myself, put a huge part of our identity in providing for the woman in our life. It doesn't matter if it is irrational, it is part of what we are raised to be. It does make us insecure when we aren't necessary for this purpose. That doesn't mean it's women's responsibility to comfort us, or to not…

I am not certain I would indict feminism for this, but this post certainly seemed to create its own double standard: that women are oppressed by gender norms that are beyond their ability to overcome, while men are somehow completely free to ignore the influence of gender norms and are therefore completely to blame if…

Yes I am. Does that make you happy? I haven't hurt anyone and I'm not responsible for all evil ever perpetrated by my gender.

Why does feminism have to antagonize and mock men all the time? Men are expected to have no vulnerabilities, this is an oppressive gender role. When men's vulnerabilities are exposed, such as feeling emasculated or being insecure about women making them "obsolete", that is a human emotion and gloating over it and…