I am anti assange because he is a toxic narcissist from hell. I wouldn’t say I am pro Chelsea but I sympathise with her more and I think she had much better intentions. I also think she was treated inhumanely in prison and her original sentence was ridiculous. But I think Chelsea definitely also has narcissistic…

Wrong. If your goal is to get out of debt, do so. Save for Paris another day. Be smart about your finances because they will follow you forever.

Last weekend we cycled up to the tulip fields (I live in the Netherlands). They’re not quite out yet but lots of other fragrant fields blooming! We saw a hare and lots of lambs! Then we cycled over the beach and had ice cream. It felt like we were finally on the way to spring.

Shelter Cat Update!

So, my sweet, sweet papa was diagnosed with a (non-Alzheimer’s) form of dementia a couple of years ago.

He’s been declining steadily since then, losing first more obvious skills like driving, through mid-level skills like understanding time and dates and applying that knowledge to the present situation, to forgetting…

The good news is they’re almost certainly going to blow the rest of their fortune on cocaine and Bitcoin.

I think of stuff like this in terms of lattes. They are the one indulgence I allow myself in my broke-ass life. These people spent like... 77,000 lattes (I’m averaging the cost of a latte here) on an admission they didn’t follow through on. I’ve never had ONE latte I didn’t drink.

I’ve had just about enough of your Vassar bashing, young lady!

POLL:

Love the mission and passion of this person, thank you! Please do some posts to educate people on how damaging the “rock balancing” pictures are. Dont move rocks around stream beds and deserts to create a min sculpture, people: it’s damaging to the environment!

This disease has a name: TWFM

The World is For Me

These people are probably the same ones doing yoga poses in the concentration camps for clicks. 

I love this so much and I didn’t know this account existed but I’m going to go follow it immediately.

“Instagram Influencer” is synonymous with human garbage.

He may have decided on that book because you suggested it to him, and he knew you were smart and would pick something intellectual - another reason he didn’t want to do it with you, the embarrassment (in his mind) of being shown up by his meant to be inferior (again, in his mind) girlfriend.

That’s really interesting, isn’t it, that he seemingly had what you crave: an undisputed identity. I think it’s great that you are seeing it this clearly. He didn’t accomplish being born into Italian culture. It makes me really angry that this guy would use something that he had to do nothing for as a means to make…

And all of that is on him, not on you. He sounds ghastly, and I think you’re better off without a mouth-breather who, at best, will be condescendingly kind to you.

Why do you want to understand his behavior in terms of what you said or did? Is that how the dynamic in your relationship worked? Did he suggest to you that he felt, thought or did things because of what you said or did? That’s really controlling. Not unrelated, choosing a partner who is “simple” versus “complicated”…