And what I meant to say for point two but forgot entirely was this: You might be happier and better able to follow your passions if you’re not in a relationship. They can be a prison just as much as the rewarding experience they are usually portraied as on TV.

Oh man, wizard, I feel for you. I was a (guy) virgin way late into my twenties, and my first experience was so bad that I didn’t have sex for three years after that. I want to add two observations to the fantastic response from our resident Dr Nerdlove: First, sex is almost always not as great as you’d think it would…